A letter to a man in his own words that brings tears to his eyes. Parting in prose. How to write an apology letter to your boyfriend

Everything that happened between us is already in the past. At this crossroads of life, we will part with you, I will go my way, and you will choose your path. I wish you to make the right choice, not make more mistakes and be happy, and I am already happy - I received a life lesson and freedom.

Goodbye. I don’t want to say a lot of unnecessary words, they won’t make anyone feel any better anyway. Just know that you will forever remain that special person who managed to touch the most intimate thing - my soul. Do I love you? I will answer, without thinking for a minute, that yes, and even very much so. But the problem is that my love is not enough to save our relationship. It always seemed to me that two people should fight for the strength of an alliance, but apparently, the opinion turned out to be wrong. Remember, all the best things are connected exclusively with you, and if you suddenly find yourself in trouble, I will undoubtedly come to the rescue. Only as a good friend, just an acquaintance, but nothing more. You are in my heart forever, and this is perhaps the saddest thing. After all, I can’t love anyone the way I love you. I sincerely believe that everything will be fine for you, that you will find your happiness. I'm sorry that everything turned out so that mutual dreams remained the sweet dreams of those who were once one.

Everything in our life has a beginning and an end. Our love with you had a happy beginning, a beautiful story, but, unfortunately, it’s time for this story to end. Forgive me for everything, please. And may our parting add strength and confidence, freedom and tranquility to both of us. Goodbye.

I'm sorry, but we can't have a happy love story. We are losing interest in each other, and this is a good reason not to continue the relationship. Otherwise, later we will both regret the lost time, the unnecessary efforts in the name of unrealistic hopes.

It's sad to know that we have to part. But I hope that this will not lead us to negativity and resentment. May each of us find our own happiness, may we be lucky on our life’s journey. All the best to you.

My beloved person, I’m very sorry, but it so happened that we have to part. May your heart not cry, may your soul not be sad, may everything in your life turn out wonderful, may there remain warm and kind relations between us.

I'm sorry, but we need to separate. You are a wonderful person who helped me see this world from all its beautiful sides, you are a ringing song and a kind fairy tale, but not mine. Let our separation put an end to our relationship, but leave us the opportunity to be good friends.

From today, it’s time for me to stop, because you won’t be around. I understand, work, circumstances, affairs, but with your departure, it’s as if a part of me is leaving. I know it won't last long. Time will pass and you will return to me, but until that moment, I will count the minutes, dreaming of the upcoming meeting. I will think about you constantly, returning to you in thoughts and dreams. I will ask heaven and all kinds of saints to take care of you and return you to me safe and sound. You are my happiness, and as you know, it is impossible for a person to live without happiness. Come back to me as quickly as possible, I'm looking forward to it!

The time for parting has come, my soul is somehow sad and empty. But, we will cope with all the troubles, with all the problems, thoughts and obstacles of time. The main thing is to believe in the best, and everything will be fine.

Today will be an extremely sad day, and all because today I say goodbye to you. It might not be for long, just a couple of days, but this time will seem like an eternity to me. Please come back as soon as possible, because without you my whole life is in turmoil. My day begins with your smile and ends with your kiss. Don't deprive me of this for long. I will miss you beyond belief, the love of my life.

Dear sun, I miss you already! I want these days, until we meet again, to fly by in an instant. I miss you madly, hug you and look forward to meeting you.

Relationships are always a rather difficult issue that people work on throughout their lives. And very often the relationship comes to an end. The process of breaking up is not easy to go through. It is especially difficult for girls who decide to tell their boyfriend about their decision in writing.

How to write a farewell letter

Composing a farewell message that will move your significant other to tears can seem like an impossible task. However, expressing your thoughts on paper is one of the most suitable ways to reduce any communication to nothing.

Draft

It is better to start writing a farewell message to a man by drawing up a draft. You should try to clearly plan your letter, highlight points that are worth mentioning, and think about how best to say goodbye to your loved one.

Things to say:

1. You should start with what this person means to the letter writer. It’s worth thinking about how best to approach him so as not to leave behind negative feelings.
2. If the decision to separate is finally made, then it is necessary to inform the addressee about this. There is no need to be afraid to say this directly and openly, so as not to mislead your partner.
3. Explain the reason for the separation. Don't forget to say everything that was the reason.
4. It is better to end the message with kind words and wishes. If there is nothing more to add to the above, then you can simply come up with a form of farewell and use it.

Writing a draft will allow you to put all your thoughts in order and choose the most successful phrases for parting.

Defining the Goal

Before picking up a pen, every girl should think about why she is writing this letter.

What could be the goals:

1. She is sure that the relationship needs to end, but it’s hard for her to lose this person. A goal appears: to end all love relationships, but maintain friendly ones.
2. It was decided that it was worth cutting off all contacts with the man. Goal: just inform your partner about it.
3. The final decision has not yet been made and the girl wants to check how her other half will react to the message.
4. It pains the girl to leave the young man, but his attitude does not suit her at all. Goal: to make your partner regret the breakup.

What is better - your own words or poetry?

When a clear plan for writing has been drawn up and there is an understanding of what needs to be conveyed to the partner, a logical question arises: what is the best way to express thoughts - in poetry or in your own words?

A message in verse may surprise your loved one, because in the 21st century people rarely dedicate poetry to each other.

However, behind the beautiful form there may be problems with the content. You can use ready-made poems, but even here a number of problems will arise. The most popular of them is that the poem does not convey everything that needs to be said to the partner. Simply put, the poem was not written for a specific person or for a specific story, it is not universal.

If a girl writes poetry herself, then it will not be difficult for her to fill them with everything that worries her. This makes it easier to tell a man everything that has accumulated. But even here difficulties may arise. One of them: often the content of a poem can be changed in order to maintain rhyme and meter. And this can be done to the detriment of the farewell message.

Finally, the most important point: you need to think about whether the man to whom the letter is addressed loves poetry, whether he can easily understand their meaning. It is known that many men love it when everything is written in simple and accessible language. You need to remember how your significant other relates to this genre in order to avoid misunderstandings.

A message written in prose will, of course, be better understood. But here, too, there are problems that may arise when writing.

One of them: how not to overdo it with volume and not write a whole treatise, which will be very difficult to read. To do this, you should always rely on your drafts and try to stay on topic.

But you shouldn’t go to the other extreme and limit yourself to the note format. You need to express all the thoughts that led to this decision.

There are many advantages of messages written in prose. One of them is that you don’t need to adapt to rhymes and meters, or think about the form. You can express your thoughts in the way that is most convenient. That is why a farewell letter to a guy, written in his own words, can even bring him to tears.

What to write in a farewell letter

Relationships between people always develop differently. And people break up for different reasons and in different ways. You have to end a relationship with your loved one, with the person who betrayed you, and with the person who was caught cheating. The letter for each type of relationship will also look different.

To the one who changed

Cheating is one of the worst betrayals that, unfortunately, many couples face. Sometimes it can be very difficult not to say unnecessary words to each other in a fit of anger. That is why a farewell letter is the best way to explain yourself to your loved one and calmly tell him about your feelings.

“Darling, I never thought that I would have to write you such a letter. Therefore, it is very difficult for me to find the right words. One of your actions made me understand that I mean nothing to you. You didn't betray me, you betrayed our love. You destroyed everything we built for so long. The fact that you lied to me but continued to be near me is just a habit. You should no longer deceive yourself and convince yourself that your betrayal is a mistake. Now we need to learn to live without each other. I hope you succeed. I don't need your apology. Be happy!"

To the guy you love

Breaking up always hurts. But it’s even more painful to leave the person you love. Unfortunately, sometimes life dictates its own rules and you have to call it a day. You can do this in person, but it is much easier to express your thoughts on paper.

“Darling, here I write what I couldn’t say at a meeting. My feelings for you are so strong that it is very difficult for me to take this step. But this can no longer continue. I began to understand that in our couple I love, and you only allow yourself to be loved. But it doesn't have to be that way. Even though it really hurts me to say this, I will say: it’s better for us to part. I don't want to make you unhappy. I want you to love someone for real. Let another girl make you happy. Don't feel guilty. I'm letting you go."

To an unloved man

Many people think that saying goodbye to an unloved person is much easier. But in reality, communicating this in a way that doesn't break the person's heart is not their easy task. The main thing is to understand that if feelings have faded, it is better to report it immediately, no matter how difficult it may be.

"Hello. You probably didn't expect this letter at all. But I have to tell you something. Lately, I began to catch myself thinking that I don’t want to be around you. I understand that this is painful for you to read. But I respect you and therefore have no right to deceive. I cannot give you sincere warmth and care. Therefore, it is better for us to part. I want to believe that you will meet a girl with whom everything will be mutual and real. Don't hold a grudge against me. Goodbye."

For a married man

Feelings often become stronger than reason. Girls who have taken on the role of a mistress understand this especially clearly. They can console themselves for a long time with hopes that such relationships have a future. But if suddenly a girl realizes that marriage and family are more important to her partner, then she should immediately break off this connection.

“Honey, I need to tell you something. You are my one and only man. But I understand that it is becoming very difficult for me to live with the thought that I am not the only one for you. We both made a very serious mistake when we let our feelings get the better of us. These relationships are not sincere, because we deceive so many people around us. Imagine how painful it would be for you if your wife had a lover. We were very good together, we loved each other. But every time I fell asleep next to you, I felt like I was committing a crime. And I can't do this anymore. Your wife doesn't deserve to be treated this way. She loves you just like I do. So please be faithful to her. I know that going through a divorce will be very difficult for both you and her. Therefore, I’d better leave you, it will be more correct. May love, mutual understanding and happiness always reign in your family. Be happy. Goodbye!"

A guy serving in the army

Military service is never an easy time for any guy. The support of his significant other is important to him. But what to do if a girl is faced with the idea that she is wasting time waiting for an unloved man? It's better to write about it honestly. After all, the only thing worse than breaking up is living in a lie.

“Hello, my soldier. The time we spent with you at a distance helped me understand one very important thing. I no longer feel for you the way I did before. I thought that separation would strengthen our relationship, but, alas, the opposite happened. I don't want you to get your hopes up. That’s why I’m saying everything right now: we should break up. I hope the service will help you take your mind off bad thoughts. And I ask you for forgiveness. Be happy!"

Farewell SMS

A modern girl will most likely choose the form of SMS messages when saying goodbye. And this is quite logical, because this form of communication is the most common.

It might look like this:

“Hello, cat. I decided that it was better for us to break up. We have become like heaven and earth. Bye!"

Saying goodbye via SMS is indeed more convenient. But there are a couple of negative points here: firstly, exchanging SMS messages presupposes a dialogue. Most likely, the man will want to respond to the SMS, and this will provoke a quarrel. Secondly, the partner may simply not take such a message seriously. In this case, a letter written on paper will look much more serious.

How to make a guy regret a breakup

When the moment of separation comes, any girl wants to understand that her departure will upset the man. To make a man regret the breakup, some details should be mentioned.

Pleasant Past

Parting with a person with whom the most pleasant memories from the past are associated is always unpleasant. Therefore, you can remind the guy about such positive moments.

For example:

• first meeting;
• first kiss;
• relationship anniversaries;
• gifts given to each other;
• difficult moments experienced together;
• joint vacation.

A future that won't exist

It's always upsetting to think about what could have happened if life had turned out differently. Therefore, if in your letter you give free rein to your imagination and describe a future together, which most likely will not happen, your partner will begin to regret the breakup.

But if a man does not experience any mutual feelings, then the girl’s dreams about the future will not touch him. Then she better try another method.

No negative thoughts

Under no circumstances should you turn your last letter into a condemnation for yourself or your significant other. You should avoid any direct accusations, reproaches and other negative thoughts.

If the purpose of the letter is to make your partner regret the breakup, then you definitely shouldn’t end the relationship on a negative note. This will only push your partner away.

How to behave after sending a message

So, the letter is written and sent. What to do next?

What you definitely shouldn't do:

1. Doubt the correctness of your action. If your opinion has not changed during the preparation of the letter, then everything is going according to plan.
2. Overwhelm yourself with thoughts about how the man will react to the letter. He is a man who is obliged to make the decision of his beloved with dignity.
3. React to a man's reply letter. The first letter said everything that needed to be said, and any dialogue could lead to a quarrel.
4. Trying to distract yourself from your worries with the help of bad habits.

In such a situation, it is best to pull yourself together and continue to live the same way as before meeting your man. We need to engage in self-development, learn to love and forgive again. And everything else will definitely come later.

Video

In the video, charisma and relationship coach Lev Vozhevatov will tell you how to break up with a guy correctly, without depression or worries.

In the video below, a professional psychologist will talk about what to do for a woman who has decided to divorce her husband. How to compose correctly farewell letter to her husband from an offended wife. And also some advice on whether to get a divorce.

Goodbye. I don’t want to say a lot of unnecessary words, they won’t make anyone feel any better anyway. Just know that you will forever remain that special person who managed to touch the most intimate thing - my soul. Do I love you? I will answer, without thinking for a minute, that yes, and even very much so. But the problem is that my love is not enough to save our relationship. It always seemed to me that two people should fight for the strength of an alliance, but apparently, the opinion turned out to be wrong. Remember, all the best things are connected exclusively with you, and if you suddenly find yourself in trouble, I will undoubtedly come to the rescue. Only as a good friend, just an acquaintance, but nothing more. You are in my heart forever, and this is perhaps the saddest thing. After all, I can’t love anyone the way I love you. I sincerely believe that everything will be fine for you, that you will find your happiness. I'm sorry that everything turned out so that mutual dreams remained the sweet dreams of those who were once one.

I vaguely imagine all this time that I will have to spend without you, because you are my long-awaited soul mate, whom I have been looking for for so long. My joy, idolized, beloved, come back quickly. Without you, your whole life will fade away, and all your days will become completely uninteresting and dull. You are the reason for my smile, which, unfortunately, I have to let go of, at least for a little while. I look forward to our next meeting with great impatience.

I don’t know how I can survive all these days without you, because today, together with you, I am letting go of a part of my soul. Take care of her, I won’t be able to exist without her in this dull and uninteresting world. I enjoy you, am inspired and admire you. Come quickly, because without you everything fades and loses its colors.

I don't want. I'm leaving. I'm sorry I can't take it anymore. I’ll leave, close the door behind me, and call another now. forget me and I will definitely forget you forever. I can’t understand you, what do you need from me. and recently I realized you didn’t need me, you need it from me. Sorry for not giving it. because I didn’t love you. we just suffered in love. keeping love not for yourself. I'm sorry I'm not yours anymore.

It's sad to know that we have to part. But I hope that this will not lead us to negativity and resentment. May each of us find our own happiness, may we be lucky on our life’s journey. All the best to you.

The time for parting has come, my soul is somehow sad and empty. But, we will cope with all the troubles, with all the problems, thoughts and obstacles of time. The main thing is to believe in the best, and everything will be fine.

From today, it’s time for me to stop, because you won’t be around. I understand, work, circumstances, affairs, but with your departure, it’s as if a part of me is leaving. I know it won't last long. Time will pass and you will return to me, but until that moment, I will count the minutes, dreaming of the upcoming meeting. I will think about you constantly, returning to you in thoughts and dreams. I will ask heaven and all kinds of saints to take care of you and return you to me safe and sound. You are my happiness, and as you know, it is impossible for a person to live without happiness. Come back to me as quickly as possible, I'm looking forward to it!

Dear sun, I miss you already! I want these days, until we meet again, to fly by in an instant. I miss you madly, hug you and look forward to meeting you.

Today will be an extremely sad day, and all because today I say goodbye to you. It might not be for long, just a couple of days, but this time will seem like an eternity to me. Please come back as soon as possible, because without you my whole life is in turmoil. My day begins with your smile and ends with your kiss. Don't deprive me of this for long. I will miss you beyond belief, the love of my life.

My beloved person, I’m very sorry, but it so happened that we have to part. May your heart not cry, may your soul not be sad, may everything in your life turn out wonderful, may there remain warm and kind relations between us.

Farewell words, SMS to boyfriend

What a pity. Letting go of the little things

We have lost something dear.

May there be happiness in our lives.

Goodbye. Don't remember the bad things. 5

What happened has passed, and the pain has died, what happened a long time ago was then... Forgive me, don’t be angry, I loved you, forgive me and accept it - I’m no longer yours. 16

Don't cry, don't cry, my soul,

He's not worth the insane torment.

After all, he caressed me jokingly,

After all, he loved me out of boredom. 16

You gave me a lot of words,

You swore you wouldn't change

He only loved my caresses,

But I didn’t understand the soul and didn’t appreciate it. 8

Understand that I'm leaving you,

I can't find the right words

I loved you sincerely

Now please, forget me. 15

My forgotten smile

Your exciting lips

Our love is a mistake

Apparently we are not monogamous... 4

My soul has grown cold

I don't see happiness ahead.

My eyelashes froze

Like sad pages

Not love - only suffering...

Something needs to change

Move on to separation. 13

Everything has passed - there’s no need to lie,

Steps of parting are already heard,

I'll leave it for you as a keepsake

Just these simple verses. 9

Why are you hurting me?

Do you think this is cool?

My heart is beating wildly

But it’s unlikely that something will awaken in you... 23

You won't whisper my name anymore,

And I grumble about my fate... 15

We will part like ships at sea,

And seeing you in the distance,

I'll go another way,

And you - pour water on your grief. 11

Fate has already decreed it this way,

And I didn’t return to you.

Now you and I are no longer together,

Live with whoever you want, God is with you! 8

My heart will smile again

The look will quickly wake up.

I will feel a surge of strength.

And you will be like the tide,

Move away from me to those very lands,

Where she once met me. 9

Goodbye, it hurts me to leave,

But this is what needs to be done

There is no need to shed tears and kill yourself,

I'll just try to forget everything. 5

We are parting, you understand this,

And please accept my apologies! 10

My head turned, my heart trembled - I fell in love with you, but I couldn’t hold it back... 14

Fate doesn't scare me, and boredom doesn't scare me either. Today is our first holiday with you - and this holiday is called separation. 13

It's sad to sit in your sadness.

Thinking about what we could

About the fact that we experienced a lot together,

But love was not saved. 14

Love has disappeared into nowhere

Why powerless attempts?

We'll run away in all directions,

But let's remember each other. 9

I’m sorry that I want to say these words (I know that it will be painful for you to read! Do you think that it doesn’t hurt me to write this? I’m sorry, but we need to part ((reply

You are good in your own way

But I love someone else

I want to be alone with him,

And you go your own way.

I want you, I want you - and that’s all!

I want to taste you!

I'm sick of you, but only so much

How much I give in to the flesh!

Your eyes don't warm me up

Even though I long to drown in them!

And my heart doesn’t swell for you -

The soul doesn't need you, not at all!

My gaze is shamelessly full of passion,

And the body yearns for your hands.

But, unfortunately or fortunately,

I don't know the pains of love.

You are my CAPRICE, my DESIRE!

I'll get it. and GOODBYE! (1)

Don't write off parting with your loved one. Maybe this is the one and only.

Think carefully before you go

And if you leave, don’t even think about coming back!

You know, I really love one guy, we talked for a year, and then I left him because I had another one. And now we broke up with this guy, and I remembered our relationship and realized that I love him. Should I apologize to him? Tell me. (2)

It's over. Not a line is on guard,

Now poems won’t even protect you.

And instead of them - and not even questions, -

Inarticulate, pathetic babble out of place:

But how can this be? Listen, why?

All this can only be understood by those who

Who sang about the sun - and from a high note,

Examples of letters for different situations

How many couples there are, so many reasons for separation: betrayal, insults, thoughtless words... So it is impossible to come up with one template that is suitable for all situations. Maybe just write “Goodbye”. However, our task is not just to report the breakup, but also to do it beautifully. So you'll have to try.

If you quit

Writing a letter if you are the initiator of the termination of the relationship may seem like a simple undertaking. But this is not entirely true. It is necessary not only to adequately justify such a decision, but also to present everything in such a way that an already offended man does not become even more offended.

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• “You are a gift I don't deserve. These are not nice words, it prevents me from sleeping and doing my usual things. But it so happened that we had to part. I don’t want you to be hurt, although I know what will happen... Don’t be angry with me and forgive me. Goodbye".
• Sometimes people are separated by kilometers, and then you have to write a letter in your own words to a loved one who is at a distance. “What could be more painful than hurting a loved one? Probably nothing. I'm sorry for the pain, for the words that hurt, but we need to part. You can't build relationships at a distance, that's not for me. May I suggest we remain friends and hope for a positive response?”

A farewell letter to a beloved man who abandoned him is a controversial matter. On the one hand, it is clear that you are no longer together, but on the other hand, you have the right to present your vision of the situation, without even hoping to return your lover.

• “I know you don't love me. But for the sake of everything that happened between us, I want to say that I will not forget this time. I hope that in life you will have a worthy woman next to you, and I will meet my one and only man. Be happy. Goodbye".
• “How difficult it is to say goodbye! That’s why I chose this way to talk to you, my recently-favorite! You left, nothing connects us, but for the sake of what happened between us, I want to say that I don’t hold a grudge against you. Be happy. Just let's agree to do everything not to meet again. We shouldn’t give our passion a reason to flare up with renewed vigor, because then it will definitely hurt...”

This is the most common reason why a woman writes: “I would not like to start by asking for forgiveness, especially since I know that you will not forgive. I am guilty before you, and there are no words of excuse, but if you can, forgive and be happy.”

When he breaks the oath of allegiance, you should not make the letter a list of reproaches. You can express all the negativity to your girlfriend over a glass of wine, but the message has a different purpose - to inform about the breakup. “I hope she’s better than me, I hope you really love her and won’t regret betraying us!” Goodbye forever!

If your feelings have cooled down or there is no other choice - only separation, then do it with dignity. A farewell letter to a loved one in your own words will eliminate the need to look you in the eye, get confused in your words, and humiliate yourself with reproaches or pleas for a return. But if you decide to report a breakup in this form, be prepared for the fact that you may not like the answer or the message will be completely ignored.

Sad SMS about breakup

A small fragment is your soul,

I'm not used to thinking about

That you've left for good.

It's unbearable to leaf through the album

And to know that you are no more...

Secret notepad in a shabby table

Everything will sing about you.

Nobody knows when or where

We have a flight ahead...

When you said nasty things to me again,

When I put my sharp fingers under my skin,

And all the planets collapsed with the stars.

And the volcano explodes inside me,

And you remain silent, grinning maliciously.

Your eyes say that I am to blame -

She opened her arms to love!

I came up with it myself, I believed it myself,

Love measured with its own standards,

I was looking for heaven with you - now I'm burning in hell.

But even through the pain I still love!

Especially for Datki.net

Everything froze and covered in ice

My homeless soul

And what I dreamed did not come true...

I'm like on the edge of a knife,

I'm walking along the edge of life,

I'm walking along the edge of the bridge,

And without you I'm freezing

But I’m burning to the ground with you too!

As if a child was sleeping peacefully,

So I woke up - and what now?

Somewhere inside hope is dying,

And the door closes behind you... And then, in his soul, He hides the resentment in vain.

He is silent, silent for appearances.

He is silent, but his heart is crying... Why did you meet and leave?

Why did you accompany me that evening?

You just found some fun

And I'm still looking forward to meeting you.

I don’t understand what happened to me,

You burst into my heart without knocking.

I can't help but see your eyes,

How should I live? life is such a torment... Forgive me, my love.

Sorry, my dear,

That I loved you

I wanted to be with you.

Forgive me, my love,

Someday I will forgive too

That you didn’t love, That you didn’t love me. I loved you and couldn't forget

I love you but I can't forgive you

Why did you do this to me?

Why did you crush my feelings into dust?...

I left you with a smile,

But, God, how my soul hurts! Goodbye, it will be a little sad

I will miss you just a little bit,

Just forget about everything, it's just a farce, nothing happened.

There is no need to look for the culprits. Left...I liked someone else...

Go! After all, the heart is not a castle,

I won’t look after you sobbing.

I won’t shout: “How could you?”

Love, be happy, smile

And don't look guilty.

Live calmly, don't worry,

That our paths diverged

And I will be calm too

I will give smiles to everyone,

And at night, without hiding the trembling,

I will shed tears. Fate decided everything for us,

And you and I must part.

I'll feel bad without you

And I want to admit this.

I will be waiting for a new meeting,

I won't even sleep at night.

I'll miss you

After all, my dear, you can’t order your heart.

I thought that the light had come together like a wedge.

I saw the meaning of life in you.

Took care of, cared for, loved -

And all this was a joy to me.

Only the feelings silently faded away,

Not finding any reciprocal warmth.

There is no love, there is a reason for sadness,

After all, you are no longer with me.

Separation is tearing my soul to shreds,

The heart is crying lonely.

Darling, I miss you very much -

It couldn't be otherwise.

The separation is very difficult,

I want to cuddle up to you.

Trust in your own hands,

Stay together forever.

It’s so painful and difficult to realize that you are no longer together... I really want to tell my ex-other half about my sadness and pain... Be sure to look at the section of our website with sad SMS about separation - there you are guaranteed to find the right words. Or pick up a mobile phone and send an unusual audio gift in the form of a beautiful song about love and separation, or a confession voiced by a famous character. Such a message will certainly be able to tell as accurately as possible about the feelings that the breakup caused you.

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The best phrases to break up with a man

How to break up with a man? What should I tell him? In this article you will find the best phrases to break up with a man.

Parting with someone whom you just recently called your loved one is not at all easy. Often women delay this unpleasant moment and avoid a farewell meeting, thereby aggravating the situation. Parting always has a negative connotation, however, even after it you can maintain friendly relations and not destroy all the good things that once connected you. Whatever the reason, by initiating a breakup, we are essentially telling the man that we no longer love him. Of course, this causes him unbearable pain, but by choosing the right words, you will reduce the force of the blow to his feelings and pride.

We offer the best phrases that will help you break up with a man with dignity.

The understanding that your relationship no longer has prospects, as a rule, does not come immediately. But one day a moment comes when you realize that parting is the only way out of this situation. It would seem that you just need to explain to the person the reason for your decision and go your separate ways without mutual claims or insults. However, in practice everything turns out to be much more complicated. Not every woman can calmly say, “We can’t be together anymore,” preferring to delay this moment, thereby causing the man even more pain.

The farewell phrase should be unambiguous, decisive and uncompromising. Having heard it, a man must understand that separation is an inevitable fact that has no alternatives. But, at the same time, there is no need to part on a negative note, thereby crossing out everything that connected you previously. Even if you leave a man because of his mistakes and actions, try to pacify your resentment without bringing the situation to a scandal.

It is especially difficult to break up with a person who is far away from you. If possible, still try to organize a personal meeting where you can explain to the man the reason for your action and dot the i’s. However, if no alternatives exist, for example, the person is in another city or country, and you will not see each other in the near future, you should not postpone the separation “for later”. Under any circumstances, you need to say goodbye to a man when you realize there are no prospects in the relationship.

When a personal meeting is excluded, you are left with several options to say the last “goodbye” - video communication, telephone conversation, email or SMS. Choose a method of communication that will allow not only you, but also the man to speak out. For example, by writing a farewell SMS or letter to a young man, you will, so to speak, “drive him into a corner,” because he will not be able to fully fend off your accusations. In addition, your words may be interpreted by him in a completely different way than you intend. If you want your breakup to be as beautiful and dignified as possible, talk to your man via video or phone. This way you can not only speak out, but also listen to his opinion.

If your relationship developed primarily at a distance, emphasize the fact that you can no longer live alone and want your loved one to be near you. But, at the same time, let him know that you are not ready to change your life for his sake, and therefore you have made the final decision to break up.

For example, a farewell phrase ending a long-distance relationship may have the following meaning:

1. “I need a person who will be next to me. Unfortunately, we cannot be together."
2. “Relationships cannot always continue at a distance. Our feelings have faded."
3. “I can't be alone anymore. Since we can’t change the situation, it means we need to break up.”
4. “Unfortunately, our feelings could not withstand the distance. I don't love you anymore."
5. “You're never around. This can't go on any longer."

The most important thing is not to delay your decision. The sooner you break up with a man, the sooner you and he will have a chance to start a new happy life.

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Poems about parting with a loved one

Goodbye! Forgive me for everything, my love!

But it’s not my turn to ask for forgiveness.

I thought I forgave you everything

But it turned out that you’re all lying!

I still hoped that everything was not true,

I still hoped that it was only mine.

Forgive me for all the misfortunes

And somewhere deep down in my soul you are my hero.

How can you stop everything?

How can I fix everything?

But you just have to live honestly!

And keep all strangers away from us.

More than once I have said: everything is in your hands,

It all depends on you.

I’m writing everything now in a hurry,

Hoping, you will stop everything while loving.

What if there is no call? Well, live!

Live as you see fit.

Is anyone related? Forgive me

Someone turned out to be simply cunning.

Since I couldn’t become a bouquet of flowers,

Which you can't breathe in,

I will free you from those shackles

And you, without knowing it, will help me with this.

I said: my life is only you!

I said: I won’t exist without you!

And soon I will only see flowers

And soon they will forget about me.

And I understand that it’s painful for you to hear.

Don't blame me, just let me go

We'll never get closer again.

I'm sorry that I lied for so long,

I didn’t talk about the feelings that were gone.

I honestly gave you my heart,

But life is cruel - I still fell out of love.

Do you want to know the answers? But why?

They will only make you very sad.

You don't owe me anything anymore

After all, everything has passed, and my heart is now empty.

Yes, you will remain dear to me forever,

Your image will forever be in my heart.

Believe me, all the pain will be taken away by the years,

After all, we cannot escape fate.

It's difficult to convey in words.

It’s as if the ground has disappeared from under your feet,

I want it so much, but I can’t hug you.

You are the one with whom I was happy,

With whom I forgot about everything.

I can't do this alone

Live, enjoy every day.

I have said more than once

That there is no you and no me.

I don't know what to do now

So scary, lonely, empty.

What should I do, where should I go?

Well why didn't you say then

My dear girl, forgive me.

Why did you deceive me?

Did I deserve all this?

I've been through a lot

And she proved that she loved.

You have always been kind and sweet.

What happened to you?

It's like you've been replaced

And everything went wrong for us.

It's very difficult for me to find words.

There is no more “we”... There is only coldness between us.

I'll say goodbye and you'll suffer.

I waited for a very long time and tried

Find in yourself the remnants of old feelings.

They are no longer there...sorry, I was scared.

I'm afraid to tell you the whole truth.

You are ideal - a gentle, sincere man.

But there is no longer that fire in my heart.

You are not mine, and I am not your half.

Even though you are the best for me.

How we kissed while running

How we greeted twenty-two sunrises

On the warm Caspian shore.

I was light, drunk, innocent.

You looked into my eyes and through me

Warmed us hospitably

Tongues of tired fire.

I was with you in a past life

They remember summer, sea and surf.

Only you forgot about it a long time ago,

Because he was unlikely to be with me.

He said goodbye forever and didn’t say anything.

Played with my meaningless fate.

And only then did he open his eyes!

You were waiting for your feelings to turn into sunset,

You believed that love would end.

You knew that the old impulses would not return!

And I was silent, my blood froze.

Everything happened, but it passed. The heart stopped.

Now I know that we are not on the same path,

You will live and not bask in my arms,

And I have a long way to go.

Say goodbye while I'm here

While other people's stars are burning,

While deception and flattery are silent.

The cigarette hasn't died yet,

Tell me before I go

Until the last carriage

It didn't take me into the fog.

Your “goodbye” will warm me,

Say goodbye and let go.

I know it's not "goodbye"

And don't promise anything

Will erase all previous confessions

Your last goodbye.

After all, what was not returned.

Now I’m not the same person I was before.

I really wanted to be with you.

But I couldn't keep you.

Now I won't return to you.

Do not return cooled feelings.

There is only emptiness inside me.

And it's all because of you.

I can't get enough of you

I'm suffocating from this pain

Trying to snuggle closer to you.

We won't see each other for a day or a month,

But I love you only more

I know for sure - we will be together,

I know that you love and believe in it.

I know - you remember all our meetings,

I know - you see and kiss in your dreams,

I know you want to be with me forever.

And know, my love, that you are jealous in vain.

You are the best and most gentle,

You are the only one in my heart now,

We'll be together longer than before

After all, we can’t escape love!

I often tell myself.

And everything that happened between us before

I gave it back to evil fate.

About everything I once said

I forgot and you forgot a long time ago

And the love that I kept then.

We won’t remember her anymore anyway.

Now each of us has our own path,

Now each of us has our own family.

Now you are a husband, and grateful to God,

That I am a wife, but not yours.

Let's forget old grievances.

Look into my eyes just once,

Don't you see happiness in them?

Yes, I know, it’s my fault,

There were mistakes and blunders.

But you answer: Why then,

Have we been together for so long?

Fate connected us with you,

The chance was given to us by heaven.

Please look into my eyes

And you will see my soul.

I gave my heart only to you,

It will warm you in difficult times.

I'll be there in silence

I won't turn away and I won't forget.

Having given you my love,

I began to rave about the happiness of life.

You gave me faith in my family,

Opened up a world that I had never seen before.

Please look into my eyes

And remember how you drowned in passion together.

We can't go the same way,

You don't want me to love you,

Well, goodbye, have a nice trip.

You're right, you shouldn't go with me,

I'm not the beauty you're looking for

And you are beautiful, you can fall in love with you,

Your eyes glow so tenderly.

Yes, they caress falsely,

And after affection, they will reward you with laughter.

Well, look for a beautiful girl,

She will be able to reward you with affection,

But know that there is no man in the world,

Who could love you so much.

For some reason you made a deal with your conscience,

But in every state there is a secret hidden,

Sad: there is a deal, then pay!

Commerce of the soul? Why so cruel?

Don't just sell your soul.

The price of your soul? You are so not alone!

We are ready to give away souls wholesale.

That eternity, the gap between us,

Now I look without loving,

Let everything now burn with lights.

You betrayed all my feelings,

You broke them into small pieces,

And I keep yours in my soul,

Lines written by you.

Then your words are like honey

They were so sweet, so beautiful,

And the ice was melted in feelings,

But it turned out to be all in vain.

Those feelings were just lies

You lied looking into my eyes

And now I hold a knife in my hands,

And a tear runs down my cheek.

Goodbye to the whole world, I love you

And life is no longer worth living,

They sit around me mourning,

And he doesn’t say a word.

You won't forgive me, I understand.

I am dying and suffering forever.

I don’t understand when and why,

I was left alone, and with nothing.

When and why did I kill myself?

When I was left alone, without you.

Lighting a fire and falling into the flame,

I realized that now I am different.

That she won’t come back, just a girl,

And you won't scratch my ear again.

After all, I am NOT a dog, and I am NOT a slave.

I won't be sad, because I'm not alone.

I'll find a mate, which will be a reward,

And just a fence, from tears from you.

I told everything. Everything about myself.

Believe it or not, the truth is clear.

But all this is so, so for yourself.

To send an SMS to someone,

To caressingly say how fresh this world is.

There is so much pain and tears here

And the grief that you caused

Makes this whole world scary.

Warms with dream, purity, warmth.

Eye to eye, hand to hand,

Palm to palm, cheek to cheek.

We stand hugging each other in the rain.

We stand there, not thinking about anything.

We always wanted to be together

Now we drink coffee separately.

Only fragments of phrases remain,

The night remained, and tears left my eyes.

Perhaps you will remember me,

And I will come to you in a dream.

You won't see my tears, I melt them,

I’ll tell you two words “I LOVE!”

Wishes for your beloved boyfriend:

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Words of farewell. Beautiful quotes about ex-love and breaking up with your loved one.

Parting with you caused me serious pain. I finally realized how much I lost with you. I finally understood what I should have thanked God for all these years, but remained an ungrateful pig.

When I looked into your eyes for the last time, I saw something there that made me start crying. You asked me why I am crying, what is the reason? Then I couldn’t answer your question, but now I’ll tell you - I read the words of farewell in your eyes, you were already planning to break up with me.

Sometimes it's just necessary to say goodbye! to what it was to say “Hello!” to what will happen. (Isn’t it a very beautiful expression? It lifts the mood perfectly.)

Say one word “Goodbye!” — it’s not complicated enough, what’s much more complicated is what remains behind the scenes with him.

Saying “Goodbye” can only be very painful when you know for sure that you will never say “Hello” again.

Why can't the people we like all over the world gather in one place and live together? It seems to me that this is probably impossible for various reasons. Someone will have to leave. After all, someone always leaves when everyone else remains and is forced to say goodbye to those leaving. I hate saying goodbye. I know what I need more - I want to say “Hello” more often.

You spent 12 years of your life trying to learn how to live, but every time you tried for those long twelve years, you were told that you were doing everything wrong. Then you are forced to part with everyone you loved - your entire past is crossed out in one fell swoop. This is what they, adults, should teach you. How to say goodbye to those with whom you would never want to say goodbye.

Time is working against us. Tomorrow night I will tell you “Farewell, my love!” while you sleep sweetly. I will kiss you very tenderly and say “Bye.” I'm sorry. »

We felt good with you - we felt better with you than all the people in the world combined. We laughed at night and cried during the day, smiled at flowers and threw stones into the sea. But the time has come to say goodbye to each other. But I want you to always keep a little bit of me in your heart. / Petrash Tatyana

"Bye!" or "Goodbye!" - a simple word. But try telling it to your best friend.

If I had never known you, I would still be completely confident that it could always be easily pronounced. But real life is completely different, and now I feel something that I have never experienced - pain, sadness, longing. It's like someone borrowed your heart but never gave it back. / Pocahontas

Today is the day when we leave our past behind, today we say goodbye to everything that happened to us, but my memory, my memories of the past will close their eyes only with mine - on the day of my death.

You know you're in love when the hardest thing in the world is having to say "Goodbye."

Never say goodbye. Why? Because it means separation forever. It’s better to say: “It was so good to get to know you better” - because it happened!

Never give up, even if you feel like you can't do it.

Never tell your loved one that you have stopped loving him if you are still not ready to let him go.

The most sincere words of farewell are never spoken out loud.

I'm leaving, I'm giving up, because it seems like nothing good is coming out of my attempts to continue our relationship with you. When I'm alone, I'm best at being myself. When I am alone at home, no one distracts me from my work with a simple word “Goodbye!” In any case, everything is temporary. So forgive me and don't forget.

When my face is covered with wrinkles from the many smiles I have smiled throughout my life, we can laugh together at how quickly time flies.

We will not want to say goodbye to you even on the edge of the gravestone - after all, true love never dies. And, believe me, even in old age you will remain the most beautiful creature in my eyes.

The best phrases to break up with a man

Parting is one of the most unpleasant moments in our lives. However, sometimes separation is inevitable. In such a situation, it is very important to choose the right words.

Poems about parting with a loved one

Goodbye! Forgive me for everything, my beloved, but it’s not my turn to ask for forgiveness. There are many sad poems about romantic love on our website. Say separation poems to your beloved boyfriend.

Parting as an everyday circumstance, as a reality - a decision that further life together is inappropriate, physical removal (travelling, cessation of contacts) and termination of relationships. Parting “not forever”, but for some long period is called separation.

With the poems presented on the pages of our website, let you and your significant other not drown in sadness and gain hope for another new round of your romantic relationship.

I don't love you, but I'm afraid of losing you,

More than your unlucky life.

I just know that love is stamped on the heart,

Can be placed over and over again.

I just know that I definitely won’t be able to live,

If one day I find out,

That there was a “smoke break” in our love,

That now I'm stressing you out.

That he forgot, fell out of love, did not forgive, cheated,

That you just don't care anymore.

For me now you just closed the door

And he lay down with the other one on the bed.

That's why I don't want to love you!

She runs and runs, without looking back. And the lanterns, like little fireflies, illuminate the dirty and wet road along which the girl runs and looks for her hopelessly lost happiness. Her legs are bleeding. She can’t run anymore. There’s no sign on her face. not a drop of makeup, she is tired of this world. And the rainy summer night carries her feelings further and further away.. Suddenly a step and a fall. Her hands are scratched, the sobbing girl clenches her knees. She is in pain, she is cold, she is alone. Her eyes are lowered and look at the ground, and the raindrops hit her harder and harder... She remembers that day, that week when that idea came into her thoughts. She curses that day, that week so as not to think anymore, not to remember about this loss. She closes her eyes and stretches out hand into the darkness, takes a breath and feels that she lives. She lives among the moon and stars and the delicate aromas of scarlet roses..

I know you're lost to everyone now

you wait leisurely and smoke a lot, looking at the heavens,

you listen to the sunset, and nervous laughter bursts out,

fingering cigarette filters,

you squint hard, not blinded by the sun,

as if the world is like coins,

will crumble behind that window now...

why are you standing there, pressing your cheek,

to the insanely smooth cold glass,

and your nerves are on edge, you are different,

and you won’t believe what I will endure.

Don't rush to leave!

Wait at the open door!

You can't easily forget

Those who love you, who believe you!

Don't rush to reject

When they open their soul to you...

Get the seal of wisdom...

Well, that's all... Now I'm putting an end to it,

I don't need to pour balm on my wounds.

All these years we lived in installments,

You invented this kind of happiness yourself.

The name stuck in a shard of memory,

The past hurts my soul like a thorn...

Leave. Here is the threshold and the door.

There, behind the door, there are steps down...

So live without you now,

so believe that this is life.

how the stars go into the sky,

lost children of the dawn,

you leave as they go into the sky

Birds that look like boats.

Our darkness is stronger than snow,

You and I say goodbye for eternity,

But this parting will pass too

After all, love is like the milky way above us,

Shines across such distances!

I'm leaving... You know, it doesn't hurt.

But now, I remember in silence,

The way you looked at me with satisfaction,

He gently told me, “Don’t scream.”

I was burning with love then,

It is unknown what has happened now.

I'm probably tired of love.

I'm leaving... I slammed the door.

It's time to go, but something is holding me back

After all, I'm leaving forever,

It's like a knife cuts through the heart,

I can't forget the eyes!

It's time to go, but something is strong

I'm still attracted to you,

It's time to go, but everyone can see

That it’s not easy for me without you!

We are parting with you,

Like two streams

Like sometimes, sometimes

Suddenly the river divides!

We part again

Together with you again;

We are heading to the sea, we are ready

How can I prove to you

That my love is only you?

You can punish me with separation

All the same, in my dreams, only you!

Suddenly out of my life,

If you ever leave

Then the heartbeat will stop

When I understand that you won’t be brought back.

Sorry, goodbye, it's hard for me to talk.

But what can I say - the roads diverge.

I couldn't love you all my life,

Don't be sad, let the anxiety recede.

Let sorrows and resentments go away,

And I don’t hold any grudge against you.

Some things are very embarrassing

Sorry, goodbye, I'm just leaving.

I have no peace. I have no peace.

The depressing light of the moon goes out.

The wind barks like a dog through a dark window,

He misses you just like I do...

And the night freezes, but peace does not come.

But the stars whisper to me about sad love:

“She won’t come: don’t call, wait.”

Should I fall headlong into the pool?

Is there a hopeless abyss in this darkness?

Should I tear my heart out of my sad chest?

“She won’t come: don’t call. Wait".

Pain. Pain, my sweet pain.

I am your eternal slave, my sweet pain...

And I can’t hear the wind and my house is empty.

When will I meet you again?

Breaking up always hurts

But sometimes, only one...

If you don't help, you won't fix it.

You won't tell anyone.

But which of the two is happier?

It’s even a pity for those who have fallen out of love...

There will be emptiness in their souls,

And not light sadness!

I'm so tired of forgiving you,

So tired of crying into my pillow.

I can't run away from love...

But our fairy tale is over!

Let's break up. And chest pain

Doesn't go away and doesn't go away.

You shouted, said: “wait.”

But the sun sets on our love!

Snow…. He is in the soul.

In the heart too.

I'm just having a hard time right now.

But I won't bother you!

Fate gave us a chance.

We decided that we didn't need him.

More precisely, only you decided so!

And I wanted you to become a husband...

You are the man of my dreams!

It's very difficult for me now!

Farewell, my beloved Seryozha!

You didn't take your chance.

And the alleys, gardens, twilight of emptiness,

You left forever and told me: “Don’t wait!”

I believe you will come back and say: “I love you”

And there is longing in my heart, and it’s pulling me into a noose.

Sharply pulling out a fragrant flower by the roots

I look at him, I remember your breath

I can never stop loving you,

There’s no way to console my pain, maybe just kill me?

When you left, you said, “Close the door behind me.”

“Do you want me to leave? It’s not difficult for me, believe me!”

Silence has come forever in my world

The play of feelings in our hearts is forever gone

You left forever, leaving no hope,

but I love you just as much as before!

I don’t want to not have to deal with the pain of torment,

Do not invite jealous love to you,

Don't rely on folded hands

And with faith to know what will happen again.

I want to walk with hope,

Use your palms to press separation to your chest.

Sincerity and devotion to embrace,

And all your thoughts will be crushed by boredom.

I want to finish the wine at the bottom

And eat a piece of the big ocean,

To understand the melancholy since I am alone again.

Forget the hysteria, forgive the deceptions.

I want to find the path of happiness

Walk along it, not knowing about the past.

I want in times of bad weather

Pray to God for what is most dear to you.

Silently the morning eats up the dawn.

Dreams go away, taking away my strength.

Not realizing that I loved you.

Quietly the snow melts underfoot.

I don't remember how it happened.

My heart broke with a bang.

The wet wind bites the moon.

It falls apart all night.

You won't come again, I know

Holding my happiness in the palms of my hands.

And spring is different outside.

Every moment burns the soul.

You won't come again, I know

Continuing to listen to the emptiness.

My heart aches with tenderness...

Longing flows into the veins like a bitter drop of pain...

I collect in my palms the fragments of inevitable separations...

To patch up the sand castle of our love again...

I miss you...

Enveloped the soul in silence...

Sadness closes all dreams about you with an icy ring...

Love is crying quietly... white roses with sad petals...

On frozen lips in a prayer not told to God...

I wish I could sigh... or cry out my pain...

The world is crumbling into cold, soulless crystal...

And it’s no one’s fault... I understand... I’m sorry... it just turned out that way...

And cruel February scratches my soul with snow...

How painful it is, nevertheless, to part,

And the heart is torn to pieces.

But since the time has come to say goodbye, -

We won't be able to avoid sadness.

But I ask you to remember me

And never forget.

Breaking up is very painful

And it’s hard to say goodbye!

Parting is like a spider's web,

Like Velcro sometimes from burrs.

If ostrich fluff gets into your nose -

This means we can’t live without each other.

It's good that it doesn't hit the soul

The noise of resigned pain is empty.

Parting is a mountain of nonsense.

It's good that we are next to you.

It can be hard to forgive

Sometimes you need to let go.

And you and I part ways,

And pain reigned in my heart.

I don't want to lose you,

But it's too late to change anything.

I'll have to forget you

After all, we, alas, cannot be together.

Early today

We separated from you again.

We have a lot of pain ahead of us

To go through to be with you again

Connect and love

Forgetting all the sorrows.

We part only for a moment,

And it’s like a stone on my soul.

The rain is knocking on my window

But I don’t care about this world, -

Sadness is with me.

No love, it's gone

And now from now on

Moaning, crying, barely breathing

My love for the picture.

There's nothing left for me to love

One picture - one thread -

On it you and I are together:

We were so happy...

And now I want one thing -

Find death quickly.

Where will you and I be again?

Where are the stars and clouds

Finally they will give you peace,

We will become an eternal couple.

The bells are ringing, dusk has fallen.

You and I just parted with cursing.

Again, misunderstanding, no compromise,

How many joys and troubles were experienced.

Much has been said, half of it was in vain.

Although I don’t hide the fact that I love you!

New separation, my soul hurts...

How long can you live like this: swear and love?!

If you have nothing to say, it’s better to remain silent.

After all, I still won’t believe you.

We have been separated from you for a long time,

Although we don’t dare admit it yet.

Beautiful words - we know that ourselves! -

Real actions are no substitute.

And before, (how quickly we forget everything!)

We didn't need their ostentatious ease.

Silence is unbearable for you,

You want to fill the void with at least something.

But I ask you as a sign of our farewell:

Don't break the silence with words!

Let us remember our parting,

Like a painful torment for two,

But it is better to remember the sincerity of silence,

What is the deceitfulness of your empty words!

We are destined to be together, I know that for sure.

And our relationship has no end in sight.

We will always be together, I hope, I believe.

My love for you is warm, tender, pure.

Separation - there is no more painful word!

It hurts so much, it cripples our lives.

And it seems we won’t be reborn again,

But everything in the world - time heals.

After all, our happiness is so short-lived,

The holiday will die down, everyday life will begin.

Love can't last forever

Like a fire near a fire, the water will cool.

But life shouldn’t end there!

When love comes, grievances will be forgotten.

After all, the holiday must continue again,

And all sorrows will be forgotten!

I kiss you goodbye on the lips.

I look into your eyes for the last time.

And just like now, I will love

You, and through all the years,

Having gone through anxiety and sadness,

Having passed through a thousand paths,

I will remember the parting -

My soul's last day.

We broke up with you, I'm sorry.

What a pity that we are not on the same path

Go through life. Let it be a little

But our journey is happy.

Forgive and let go

Sins, grievances and bad weather.

But there was still more happiness.

Your love, face, eyes

I will never forget.

Breaking up is bad

This is of no use at all.

And something will happen

Let life be on his tail.

We are unforgettable separation

My guy, but frankly -

Why let her in?

And how the door suddenly slams,

Having awakened hope immediately -

How can a beautiful face

To be a stranger to your own eyes!

She flew away, the dove just waved her wing.

I feel both painful and terrified.

The light is a continuous blur.

Feelings fell like a stone, and the candle went out.

A dull parting hits the heart like an arrow.

If separation is inevitable and you are thinking “how to break up with a guy without offending him?”, try writing a farewell letter to your boyfriend or beloved man.

Farewell letter examples

For example, this:

Farewell letter to the man you love

Farewell letter to a man who offended

Farewell letter to the man who cheated

Farewell letter to ex

Farewell letter to my beloved husband

I'm sorry. And goodbye!

Farewell letter to a married man

Forgive me and let me go"

Farewell letter to the man who left

Farewell letter to a man you don't love

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How to write a goodbye letter to your boyfriend to make him cry

Sometimes relationships end sadly. Every couple has their own reasons for breaking up. This could be resentment, betrayal, misunderstandings, betrayal, cold feelings, etc.

If a break in the relationship is inevitable, then you need to be able to put a beautiful end to it. Most often, it is women who have a romantic nature who take on such responsibility. If during a conversation tears can treacherously flow or the voice trembles, then this will not happen in a letter. A farewell letter will be the best option to announce a breakup.

Main criterion

If a woman decides to break up and write a farewell letter to a man, then she should write honestly about the reason for the separation. When reading it, the chosen one must understand and be imbued with the feelings that the woman put into the letter.

If the reason for the breakup was another man, then you should not hide it, but honestly admit it to your ex. But there is no need to name names.

When writing a farewell note, you should avoid common phrases such as: “you and I are different people,” “I am unworthy of you,” and so on. You should not mention all the grievances that accumulated during the relationship and blame your ex-partner for what happened.

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Examples of letters

Before writing a farewell letter, you can use templates that are available on the Internet. But it will be better if the girl writes the letter herself.

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If there are no feelings

If the feelings have passed, then you should say so directly. There is no need to come up with other reasons.

Letter option:

“Hello, (name)! I know you will be surprised by this letter. You and I have always solved all problems through conversations, but lately every conversation we have ends in a scandal. I thought about our relationship for a very long time, analyzed, sorted out my feelings and came to the conclusion: something needs to be changed, this cannot continue.

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To the person you love

Writing a letter to someone you still love is very difficult. There are still feelings for him, but the understanding that the relationship is not the same as before forces you to tell your chosen one about it.

Option for a farewell letter for a loved one:

“My beloved! I finally decided to write you a letter and say everything that I cannot say when we meet. Our relationship has turned into a one-sided game. All my attempts and efforts to improve the relationship between us bring nothing!

You changed your attitude towards me. All our meetings do not bring you joy. You don’t want to talk to me, you call very rarely. Do you think I don't understand anything? I see everything, it hurts me even more. I understand that you are unhappy with me.

I decided to leave, to end this sick relationship. I'm letting you go! I couldn’t make you happy, let someone else do it.

I won’t lie, I will feel very bad without you!

To the man who offended

If a man has offended you, then there is no need to express your anger and resentment in a letter. It’s better to just say that his action hurt him greatly and caused the separation.

Example of a letter to an offender:

“Hello, dear! I decided to write you a farewell letter in prose. I don’t have enough mental strength to write a letter in verse. I spent all my strength trying to stop the tears that I shed because of you. I decided to put an end to our difficult relationships.

Everything that happened between us is over! There are no more feelings that burned before, no respect for each other, no care and understanding. We have become complete strangers!

It is worth admitting that we ourselves destroyed and trampled on our feelings. I don't want to live like this anymore. I made a decision that will only make us both better! We need to part ways, our paths have diverged.

To the one who changed

Cheating on the part of a man is the most base and stupid act. Often girls, in a fit of anger, do rash acts and are in no hurry to talk to a man. To avoid consequences, it is better to sit down, calm down and write a farewell letter in which you can state all your complaints.

An example of a farewell letter to a man who cheated:

“I don’t even know where to start the letter. My feelings have not cooled down and I still love and adore you. But you betrayed me! You stuck a knife in my back! By your act you proved that I mean nothing to you! You trampled me!

Perhaps you cannot decide to have a frank conversation with me. Put an end to our history. I found the strength for this! My feelings for you are strong, but I can never forgive the way you treated me. From now on we are not on the same path! Everyone needs to go their own way! You have already taken the first step towards your new life!

I wish you happiness and good luck! I don't hold it against you! Goodbye!"

Ex-boyfriend

Sometimes girls return to the past and start writing to their exes. This usually happens when a girl has unsaid words.

Option for writing a letter to an ex-boyfriend:

“Hello! I’m writing a letter and I don’t even know how to contact you. I want to say dear, beloved, only, but I understand that I don’t have the right to do this. My feelings for you have not cooled down, my love is still strong. But Now you are with someone else. You were a wonderful moment in my life! But all this has passed...

After our separation, I thought only about you around the clock. I couldn't breathe without you! I had a feeling that life ended there. But over time it became a little easier for me. Life no longer seems so meaningless. I learned to breathe deeply again and enjoy every day. I started smiling again!

Yes, I learned to live without you, but this does not mean that all feelings are forgotten. No, I still love and adore you! And even time is not able to tear you out of my heart! No one will force me to get rid of my memories. I will always wait and hope that you will return to me!

Thank you for all the wonderful moments in our relationship! Goodbye."

To my beloved husband

Sometimes it happens that a beloved man leaves to work in another city or country. Due to the distance, one of the spouses may lose feelings, which will lead to divorce.

Example of a farewell letter to my husband:

“My dear! Beloved! I still can’t understand how it happened that our paths diverged? I can’t believe that this separation is forever! How could this happen? We are on the verge of divorce!

I can’t imagine my life without you, I don’t believe that I won’t be able to hug or kiss you. Do you remember our first meeting? Do you remember what you told me then? I don’t believe that you have forgotten our wonderful moments, days and nights spent together. I also don’t believe that you have lost your love, because I still love you. You are the meaning of my life.

I would like to hope that this is all temporary. I think that many problems have fallen on you, because of which you do not hear the voice of your heart. I live in hope that your love for me will be resurrected!

Thank you for everything! And goodbye!"

For a married man

If a girl has a relationship with a married man and understands that it will not lead to anything good, then her mistress should break off such a connection.

An example of a message to a lover to make him cry:

“Beloved, dear, the only one, but not mine! If you knew how difficult it is to write a letter to a person you still love. I made a serious mistake when I fell in love with you! I had no right to give in to feelings and rush headlong into the pool. And you had no right to do this either.

Our relationship was a crime, but it was still beautiful. Now is the time for us to wake up and end our relationship. I want to hug you for the last time, look into your beautiful eyes and let you go forever!

You have a wife, you must return to her. You must be a real man and solve all your problems in the family. The reality is that you belong to someone else. We met you too late.

Return to your family, become a good husband, do not hurt the woman who is next to you. She doesn't deserve this! It's not her fault that your feelings for her have cooled. I wish you to reunite with her, your feelings will sparkle with bright colors again. I don't want to be the cause of your unhappiness!

Good luck, love and happiness! Goodbye forever!"

To the guy who quit

Sometimes it happens that guys leave girls without reason or explanation. The girls don’t tell them anything, and then write all their thoughts in a farewell letter.

An example of a letter to a guy who offended and abandoned:

“Beloved! I’m sorry that I address you this way, but I can’t do it any other way. The reason is that I have always loved you and will continue to love you! I was hurt by your attitude towards me. Your action cannot be justified. It hurts me very much and it’s a shame. Tears are streaming from my eyes.

I was the happiest person in the world. At times, it seemed to me that this was not happening to me. Just recently, your hands, eyes and lips warmed me at night. Now I spend my nights alone, suffering and crying endlessly!

Why did you leave and didn't explain anything to me? Didn't say anything goodbye! Why did you disappear from my life and didn’t tell me the reasons for such an act? You didn't consider it necessary to say goodbye to me. Did I really deserve this? I don't want to believe that you will never come back to me again. Every day I fall asleep and wake up with the thoughts that someday I will be able to hug and kiss you again. You should know that I will wait for you as long as necessary. I will love you and remain faithful only to you.

I wish you happiness!"

To the unloved

When girls realize that they have no feelings for a guy, they try to say so in person. If a girl is afraid to say about her decision, she can write it in a letter.

An example of a message to a guy for whom you have no feelings:

“Dear, (name)! You are a wonderful and wonderful person! I am incredibly lucky that I met you on my life’s path. You know how to respect, love and understand! Forgive me that I cannot answer you in the same way. I cannot force my heart to love you. I believe that you deserve to know the truth.

I don't want to deceive you and continue my relationship with you. I believe that you are not worthy of such an attitude towards yourself! I would like to thank you for the wonderful moments and wish you to be loved! You deserve it!

I would like to part as friends and not spoil our relationship. I trust that you will understand everything correctly and appreciate my honesty.

Forgive me and let me go! Goodbye! Be happy!"

Message via SMS

Modern girls can send a farewell message using SMS.

Some examples:

• "Dear! We need to part. Goodbye!"
• “Love has passed, we are not on the same path!”
• "Forgive me, but we can't be together anymore! Goodbye!"
• "Our relationship has reached a dead end. There is no point in continuing it."

It is not recommended to break up with your loved one via text. This is disrespectful to your ex-partner. A letter written on paper indicates the presence of real feelings, sincerity and respect for the guy.

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In this hectic world, one day two halves meet - He and She. Each couple has its own scenario for the development of relationships: a love story begins, unfolds and, sadly, comes to an end.

There are many reasons for separation: misunderstandings, accumulated grievances, betrayal, and simply a feeling that the relationship has reached a dead end.

Almost all stories have a beautiful beginning, but not everyone is able to put a beautiful end to it. It’s difficult to gather your thoughts and say calmly: “I’m sorry, we need to break up.” The voice may tremble treacherously, and tears will flow from the eyes.

If separation is inevitable, try writing a goodbye letter to your boyfriend or beloved man.

Girls, of course, are delicate creatures, but often they are the ones who take the courage and say the last “Goodbye”. It's much easier to talk about a breakup in writing.

You can write the message in your own words or use the templates that we have prepared for you.

“Hello, bunny. You will probably be surprised that I am writing you a letter. We are used to talking to you. True, lately all our conversations end in quarrels. I thought for a long time, understood myself, analyzed our relationship and realized: this cannot continue.

I have already forgiven you. And goodbye!

“Darling, good, beloved! I pulled myself together and decided to write to you in a letter everything that I could not express in words when we met. Our love has turned into some kind of one-sided ugly entity. I see that my efforts to improve relationships are leading nowhere.

You rarely call and perceive our meetings as a heavy duty. I’m not made of stone, and I feel it all. It hurts, it’s hard, I won’t pretend to be strong. I will cry, miss and worry about you.

But, so be it, I’m letting you go free. Fly towards your happiness. Unfortunately, I couldn't make you happy. May everything work out for you with another girl. Maybe you already have someone, but you’re afraid to say it. Fly, my dear, fly!

I'm letting you go. Forever. Goodbye!"

“Hey baby. I am writing you a farewell message in prose. There is not enough mental strength for poetry and rhymes. My strength left along with the tears, which I stopped with great difficulty in order to put an end to our story.

We began to quarrel often and say hurtful words to each other. We became strangers and incomprehensible to each other. The hands have ceased to be affectionate, there are no former strong hugs and... there is nothing at all.

Let's admit to each other that our love has turned into nothing, we destroyed it with our efforts. My resentment is too great to continue the relationship.

We are parting. Forgive and farewell!”

"My dear! How difficult it is for me to gather my thoughts and tell you everything. Even in a letter, when you don’t see my tear-stained face. I know that you betrayed me. No, not like that. You betrayed our love, our beautiful days and nights. Your action showed that I mean absolutely nothing to you.

Apparently I've become your habit. You call out of habit, you come out of habit, and you even apologize out of habit. You manage to do this somehow insensitively and insincerely. Why do we need extra problems? We both need to change something in our lives. You've already started.

Have a nice journey, dear! I forgive you and let you go. Forever."

“Hello, hello! I don’t even know how to contact you now. Your heart beats and shouts to you “beloved”, “dear”, “only”, and your mind sobers up and says “former” about you. Yes, you were a wonderful, wonderful moment in my life. Now it seems that everything was a dream. Morning came and our love dissolved.

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After our separation, days and nights ceased to exist for me. I lived as if in some impenetrable fog. But the heavenly forces have had mercy, the fog is slowly dissolving, I see the outlines of the horizon. This means that I live and breathe deeply again.

You may no longer be in my reality, but no one will tear you out of my heart. Memories of our meetings will always warm and encourage me. Sorry for everything. Remember us. There was love. Goodbye!"

“My dear, dear man. Life has decreed that you and I have turned from two halves into two loneliness. I think about you every minute, my heart lives only with you. How did it happen that we are breaking up?

Do you remember our first meeting - our burning eyes, excitement and unquenchable desire to be together. Do you remember our days and nights? Do you remember how we missed each other?

Is love really doomed to death, like all living things in this world? If I love, how can you not love? This is somehow wrong, unfair. The feelings must be mutual.

Maybe you have been overwhelmed by so many problems that you have stopped hearing the voice of your heart? I will pray to heaven that your heart will be freed from captivity, that love will be resurrected in your soul. I wish you goodness, light, warmth and, of course, love!

I'm sorry. And goodbye!

“Good, not my man. How difficult it is to write a letter to someone you still love! I had no right to fall in love with you, but I could not resist the surging feelings. It's surprising that you couldn't resist either.

I don’t know what to call our relationship, but it was beautiful, like a dream. As sad as it is, the time has come for both of us to wake up, look into each other's eyes for the last time, embrace each other for the last time and part.

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You are married, return to your family, gather your strength and solve all the problems that have befallen you like a man. At first it will probably be difficult, you will rush back, but this is a path to nowhere. The wonderful dream dissolved in the rays of the clear sun, it was time to face reality.

Be happy with the one who is your legal wife. After all, you loved her once. I wish you reunion, understanding, warmth and light. I no longer want to be the cause of your quarrels and pain.

Forgive me and let me go"

"My love! I'm sorry, I can't call you anything else, because I love you and will always love you. It hurts me, I'm offended to the point of tears. Burning tears are what keep me warm in these last days and weeks. And before, your hands and lips warmed me.

My heart rejoiced and did not believe in my happiness. It beat like a free bird, ready to burst out of the chest. And now it beats dully and doomedly, as if forever imprisoned.

Why did you leave? He didn’t explain anything, didn’t say goodbye, didn’t hug. He just disappeared from my life and that’s it. I can’t believe that life goes on and you’re not there and won’t be there anymore. I believe in a miracle that you will come to your senses and want to return. Know, my dear, that I will always open my arms to meet you. I will be faithful to you until the end of my days.

Remember this. And be happy!

"Dear friend! I am glad that I met you on the path of life. You are a wonderful, sincere, interesting person. You know how to love and look after beautifully. I'm sorry I can't reciprocate your feelings. My heart does not respond to the call of your heart. You can probably guess this yourself.

I can't date you anymore and continue this deception. Thank you for the love and warmth that you generously give, but believe me, I am not the one who will reciprocate your feelings. Let's part as friends before our relationship reaches a dead end. Keep this farewell letter and remember that I was honest with you.

Forgive me a hundred thousand times and let me go once. Goodbye!"

Modern girls can end a relationship by sending their ex-boyfriend a goodbye text message.

“Hare, it’s all over between us. Goodbye!"

“This can’t go on any longer, the love has passed, the tomatoes have wilted!”

“I'm sorry, it's over, we're not together anymore. Goodbye"

Remember that sending the “last” SMS is dangerous. There is a high probability of receiving many perplexed or even offensive text messages in response. A beautiful one-way farewell letter on paper will indicate the seriousness of your intentions.

The choice is, of course, yours. Perhaps you, like Tatyana Larina, will want to rhyme your last message.

Everything in this world is not forever,

There is an edge to everything in the world.

I'll put my arm around your shoulders

And I’ll whisper: “Forgive me, goodbye.”

No need for further explanation

No need for tears or insults.

Let there be no love between us,

Let's part as friends.

It is difficult to decide and send a goodbye letter to a guy, even if it has already been written. In any case, it is better to throw out your pain and resentment on paper than in the face of your loved one.

Who knows, maybe this message will take your relationship to a new level, help resolve accumulated misunderstandings and mend faltering relationships. Be happy!

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Touching letter to your loved one about parting

What could be sadder for a young girl than parting with her loved one. There are all sorts of situations in life, there are disagreements that are incompatible with a joint future. But even in the most unpleasant events, I want anger and hatred not to darken the lives of two people who were recently a couple. Therefore, it is better to always end a relationship on a pleasant note, no matter how difficult it may be. For those people who find it difficult to express their thoughts in the presence of a loved one, there is a good option - write a letter. We offer you a “Letter to a Loved One about Breaking Up.” Perhaps this letter will help you formulate your own thoughts and reach the heart of your spouse.

So, a letter to your loved one about breaking up:

“My favorite little man! I can’t start a conversation in your presence, so I decided to write you these words goodbye. I think that it would be more correct this way, so I can tell you without tears and hysterics everything that I think, feel, how I am going through. Unfortunately, the moment has come when we need to part ways. You and I look at many things differently. I feel like I’m already tired of you not being around all the time, that work, friends and ex-girlfriends mean much more to you than me. It seems to me that you and I are standing in the same place. We don't make each other happy. I'm afraid that a little time will pass and we will completely distance ourselves from each other, begin to irritate each other, and become uninteresting. I'm scared that years will pass, and I will still be sitting by the darkening window, waiting for you to finally come home. It hurts my soul that I can no longer reach you, draw attention to my experiences and problems. I see that my love for you does not make me happy, it destroys me and brings me disappointment. For some reason, our endless conversations bring nothing but mutual insults. But something else is important to me, your attention, sympathy are important to me, I want to feel that you need me. I’m telling you again - even a small drop of your attention could water my soul, just one gentle word, a gentle warm hug or a kiss - and it would bloom, give me hope and faith in the future with you... But your distrust, your inattention, your demonstrative independence from me breaks my wings and lowers me to the ground. It’s always sad and funny to me when you emphasize your independence and your reluctance to have a family in front of your friends. We have been living together for a year now, and our relationship is not growing into a strong and joyful union; we are becoming more and more strangers to each other. Sometimes it seems to me that you are even burdened by my company. And I really wanted us to have a good time together. I tried for us and for you. You know very well that I love you with all my heart. But I decided that it would be better for us to part. I think you haven’t fully understood yourself, you haven’t been able to understand whether you need me or how you feel about me. Breaking up will help both of us sort out our thoughts, and you - in your life. If you suddenly realize that you love me, you can always find me. If we can no longer be something more for each other, know that I have long forgiven you all the insults and wish you only happiness!”

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Breakup letter to boyfriend

Don't chase, don't cry. If he loves, he will return, but if he doesn’t love, don’t be sad!

There were happy moments close, Now it seems they were only in a dream... You won’t hug, you won’t reassure, And you won’t warm your hand with warmth. You won’t cover your lips with a kiss - We have become too distant with you... 7

Eternal separation has come and only silence remains without you... 11

I will clench my teeth, I will bite my lips, I will hold my breath in my lungs, But I will not ask for your love, Like a beggar asking for alms. 15

Call me whenever you want, But don’t invite me anywhere. Don’t give me anything, Sorry, it’s all over. Goodbye. 8

Perhaps the time we were together was actually incredibly wonderful. 11

My hand trembles and tears flow, And my heart breaks out of my chest. I so wanted to return to love, But you said - “Go away”! 8 - to the guy about breaking up

Goodbye! And don’t remember about me, Forget about how we walked, Forget that I was waiting for you, Forget that I often remembered And that I loved only you... 24

I will not become yours forever, I will not enter your heart and home, But there is no resentment in my soul, Let's say goodbye to that. 15

I believed your words, believed in their strength and passion, They gave inspiration and did not let you fall. Only your words are like smoke melting high, What they are, what they are not - it seems to be the same... 17

Today I decided not to fall in love with people like you anymore. Have a nice day my ex... 14

Goodbye! How sad this word is. Who invented it?! For the tongue it is simple, but what is it for the heart? 11

Wet pillow, My head is a mess, Everything has changed, Everything is no longer the same. What’s going on with me? It’s all you! You made me believe, You made me wait, What happened to you? Where is your love? Maybe it’s hidden in kilometers of words? I loved you , I love you. And I probably won’t be able to forget you! 9

You know that I love you, but we can’t be together. We couldn’t step over the abyss of mistrust that you created... 19

Forget me, I won’t forget. If you forget, I can’t! I only dream about you all night, I LOVE YOU as before!!! 17

I say goodbye to you, I will never return... But when I meet you, I will smile at you! 6

Sorry, but we are different people, We expect different things from each other. Let's forget each other, Let's love only those who deserve it more. 13

Remember me sometimes, If it’s not difficult for you. Leave a corner in your heart for me, If possible. 16

We buried our love and put a cross on the grave. God bless! - they both said. Love just stood up again, nodding reproachfully - what did you do, I’m alive! 12

If you like to ride, then go for it! 11

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“Farewell” letter to my boyfriend...

I am writing a letter to you by chance... So…. The mood “prompted”…. I don’t know if I’ll send you what I’m writing, but it will definitely make me feel better! Even if it “sounds” selfish! Then I will say this: today I will allow myself to be selfish (to the fullest extent).

Goodbye! A terrible, but forced word. Farewell letter..., farewell word. Perhaps I wouldn’t have written it to you... But meeting you yesterday changed everything. I'm getting married. You have been invited to the wedding for a long time, because you are my best childhood friend. And yesterday I brought an official invitation... I was lucky: I gave it to you personally. Your sad phrase turned my whole mind upside down... You said (incredibly quietly): “you still decided to legitimize your relationship with him...”.

I understand that you only wish me happiness. I am grateful to you for volunteering to help with the “preparations” of the decorations…. But your tone managed to tell me a lot...

Sasha, I've been waiting for you too long! And I hoped for a lot in vain... In the distant past, I could say I ran after you. But you were small (boys grow up later than girls!) and didn’t understand anything. And I suffered, although I was also not very old. I can tell you honestly now: I have been in love with you for more than ten years! Impressive, right? I myself am in the same shock.

Did you keep my notes and letters? Do you store it now? I wrote you so many of them that it’s even embarrassing! But I (at that time) had no time for that! I waited for you to grow up, but I never did.

Our lives were scattered and scattered. But I couldn't forget you. I remembered the first time I was married. I was a little over twenty years old... How long ago it was! I just feel old – old when I look at my passport! How quickly the years have flown by!

My friend (who knows you, but you definitely won’t remember her) was very surprised when she found out that we communicate closely with you.

No offense! My “farewell speech” is just a convention, nothing more! But I take you into a new life in the “role” of my best friend! Do you agree? I think that you will not refuse this.

If you understand that you love me, stop loving me! We have no future. Not anymore! It will sound rude now, but you are late, my friend! I really believe that you will find a girl, she will love you as much as I loved you for a long time...

Am I crying? Yes! Inspired by... It's a shame that it all turned out this way. I have been waiting for you for so many years, I protected, cared for and cherished my love... The result is a completely different future! But you won’t believe it, this is exactly what I dreamed about!

It’s very inconvenient that my small dream, which is connected with you, came true too late... We kissed! But I no longer needed that kiss, since I was already building a different destiny. I don't regret anything, of course. On the other side…. If something had worked out for you and me many years ago..... I wouldn’t have the person I love madly! Sorry, but I feel better with him! In any case, I did not lose the best years of my life and did not spend them on oceans of tears. I don't blame you for anything anymore. It's all gone!

If it hurts you mentally, don’t come to my celebration. You know. That I will understand you in this! But I will be grateful and happy if you are there on such a wonderful day for me!

Sanya, dear, you deserve great happiness! You told me the same thing. It turns out that both you and I deserve it, but in different “worlds.” I don’t mean the “Hare Krishna world” in which you now live…. Yes - yes, I mean you and me!

I have a very strange feeling inside right now... It’s as if something in the soul is dying, dying…. It is even more difficult to convey this in words. It’s easier to feel it.

But I wouldn’t wish this on anyone, I tell you honestly! If only you knew how hard it is for me to write all this now... But I’m writing to make it easier...

Sanya! Thank you for being such a close friend to me! You've helped me out so many times that I've lost count! I helped you no less. But I always help everyone! And you are a special case. I want to do something good for you all the time...

You may misinterpret my behavior. I don’t have any feelings (except for friendship) for you! I treat you very well. Like none of the guys. But please don't count on anything. If it is difficult for you to see me, we will limit ourselves to communication on the Internet, messages and mobile phones.

I’ll write cruelty, but I’ll write it anyway! Otherwise it will “sit” inside me like a thorn. I suffered because of you, and now it’s your turn to suffer! Time will pass and everything will calm down, Sasha! Just manage to wait out this whole difficult period! I can advise you on how to do this! Work hard and spend a lot of time with friends. “Get lost” with your nephew Verochka. I have never seen her, but my grandmother says she is lovely. I don’t doubt this for a moment!

I have one request for you... When you finish reading the letter, come see me. I want to have a cup of coffee or tea with you. If you want, invite me to your place. And I'll be there right away! I can bake a cake too, if you’re willing to wait! You’ve known for a long time: I don’t go to visit empty-handed.

I have no idea how or what I will tell you. But I know for sure that you can’t plan anything. Any plans are in vain. Everything will be along a different “route”, and not along the one that would have been planned. We will look at everything according to the circumstances!

The following thought flashed through my head right now... That I will come to you and stand at the door, because you will not let me on the threshold. Don't be afraid of me! I'm not going to pester you at all! I am so faithful to my fiancé that even when greeting him on the cheek, I’m afraid to kiss him.

I've never been like this with anyone. Sanya, be happy for me: I fell in love with a man! Love is the greatest happiness. You can also mention health, but it is more difficult to find than a “soul mate.” I wish you to find it too, my friend! Don't forget to invite to the wedding! I’ll say right away: I definitely won’t come alone, since my beloved and I are one inseparable whole!

Understand every word of mine correctly, so that you don’t get offended and think badly of me. I deserve for you to think exceptionally well of me. Am I overestimating myself? May be! But don't focus on this! Thank you for reading these lines! Come visit! You don't have to answer a letter by letter. Say everything, looking into your eyes, if it’s not difficult!

Continuation. . .

Goodbye! - Farewell letter to a former lover.

Farewell letter to a loved one. - Forgive me and goodbye!

It's time to leave! - How to break up with a guy gracefully?

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Farewell letter to a married lover about separation

Have you decided to cut ties with your married boyfriend, but don’t know how to do it? Then you've come to the right place. We will tell you whether it is possible to break up painlessly, how to reduce the suffering of your loved one if he is still burning with feelings and is not ready to cut from the shoulder? And also - how to competently say that everything is over between you. Or is it better not to say, but to write a farewell letter?

Why should you separate from a married man?

First, let's talk about the reasons why it would be worth breaking up with a married boyfriend. So:

• You are wasting valuable time. When a girl is under 25, an affair with an unfree man still needs to be explained, but if she is already over 30, then not quite. At this age you need to work on starting a family. Well, or at least think about it. Women over 30 find it much more difficult to find a suitable partner. All male peers are usually already employed or divorced and have children from their first marriage. It's worth hurrying. And first, free yourself from unnecessary bonds.
• Karma may overtake you. Jokes aside, but have you noticed that all your actions come back like a boomerang? And if you haven’t noticed, then you probably know that breaking up someone else’s family is not entirely good. In addition, taking away someone else's betrothed is humiliating and can be costly. After all, there are no guarantees that they won’t do the same to you.
• Lack of support and support. This is very important for the weaker half of the couple. But the married lover has no time for that. After all, he has a family and a lot of troubles of his own, and he comes to his girlfriend for physical intimacy.
• Reputation. If relatives or someone you know finds out about the affair, they may look at you differently. Some will sympathize - the poor woman was completely desperate and rushed into the arms of someone else's husband, and some will consider you frivolous - she is having affairs with just anyone. Both are unpleasant.
• Psyche. A long-term relationship with someone else's husband was not good for anyone. First, it is easy to slip into addiction. The girl will have neither the strength nor the desire to break the vicious circle. Perhaps one day she will meet a worthy man, but she will pass by, because she, except her beloved, has not been interested in anyone for a long time. Secondly, the beautiful lady’s self-esteem will decrease due to her worries. In addition to the feeling of guilt, there will be a feeling of uselessness and inability to decide something on your own. And stress will affect your health. Especially on women's.
• Statistics. You are probably aware that 75% of husbands stay in the family, and another 15% leave, but after a while return to their wives. It is a mistake to think that your case is unique. Prepare for the worst, otherwise it will be very painful. They expect pleasure from their mistress and nothing more. Therefore, do not delay, remember how an illegal relationship will turn out for you.

Why don't you still write a goodbye letter?

Now let's figure out what prevents a girl from ending her love affair?

The main reason is the fear of being alone. But this is a deep misconception. When one door closes, another opens. The only problem is that sometimes you don’t want to close the old one. Don't be afraid of feeling useless. There are men in the world who will appreciate you. Perhaps he is nearby and you don’t see.

Fear of change will also slow down the decision. There is an opinion that it is better to be bad, but stable. Doesn’t it scare you that there is nothing more permanent than temporary? If the decision is postponed, the relationship may drag on for a dozen years or more. And you will wake up when you turn 40. And you will wake up from tears for your departed lover - after all, he will certainly find someone younger. Think that the relationship is doomed in advance. And after the break it will be better. After all, when you stay with a married person, you suffer constantly, but when you separate, you only suffer for a few weeks.

Sometimes pride forbids talking about separation. The girl is afraid of the act; it seems to her that she will lose the war she is waging with her boyfriend’s wife. But the trouble is that there was no war - the husband didn’t even think about leaving, and the wife didn’t know at all.

The mistress’s problem is that she compares herself with her rival, it seems to her that she is more worthy and good. There is no need to engage in self-criticism. Remember that you are unique and will definitely find a worthy guy.

And, of course, hope for a future together will become an obstacle. The motto: wait and hope is a bad help here. In addition, even statistics declared that if the partner did not leave the family in the first year of dating, it is useless to wait. Get rid of illusions, finally tell your lover that it’s all over. If he really wanted it, he would have found a way to move in with you a long time ago.

A letter from a mistress to a married man: why write?

If the lady has made up her mind, then there are few ways to break up:

• Talk.
• Write a letter with explanations.
• Leave in English.

The best way, of course, is the first one. When scheduling a meeting, be sure to communicate that the conversation will be serious. Prepare your loved one - this way the information will be easier to perceive.

But sometimes it is very difficult to talk about a breakup while looking into your eyes. If you still have feelings (and usually you do), anxiety may get in the way. Thoughts will be confused and speech will become confused. Because of this, a person is not able to correctly express what he thinks and can make mistakes.

There is also one more obstacle - when you see your chosen one, your feelings will surge with renewed vigor, and you can change your decision. Or cut yourself some slack - spend time with him supposedly for the last time. The key word here is “allegedly”.

What if the partner falls to his knees, begs, promises to marry, and so on? Of course, this will be an incentive to continue communication.

And the last possible obstacle is that when you tell your lover about the meeting, you will stumble upon soulless silence. He will guess and will not come, avoiding humiliating speeches.

So, the best option to say about the breakup would be a message.

This method is also good because it will make the girl feel better emotionally. You won’t have to watch how the news takes your partner by surprise, feel guilty, or try to somehow brighten up the corners. Despite the fact that the man is to blame in this situation (after all, he has two passions, and he cannot make a choice), the beautiful lady feels guilty. Perhaps because women with low self-esteem find themselves in love triangles.

Then - if for some reason you are angry with your companion, it is better not to engage in conversation. You will always re-read the letter of explanation, tear it up and throw it away. But the word is not a sparrow... In a fit of passion, you can say anything. You will feel better, but your partner will have a scar on his heart. Well, perhaps not so tragic, but you will still have to regret what you said.

How to write a letter to your loved one?

Writing a letter by hand, from our point of view, is a thing of the past. But some people believe that a text written in their own hand is more touching. If this option suits you, please do so. But just keep in mind that:

• A man is unlikely to appreciate the efforts. Often they don’t care how it’s written, the main thing is the content.
• You will have to deliver the letter personally, and we have already written about the dangers of the last meeting with your ex. And yes, transfer through third parties is a very risky business.
• If the partner does not destroy the evidence immediately, a message in an envelope may be easier to detect than a message in an email. Think about it.

The text should not be too long. Put yourself in the place of the reader. Do you want to flip through four pages of a farewell message? Half a page is enough.

To begin with, be sure to note that the period spent with your lover was wonderful. Express your gratitude for all the good things he has done for you. Then add a text apologizing for not being able to talk about the breakup in person, and also for the fact that they may have been wrong somewhere. Don't forget to express your regrets and say that separation is inevitable. Communicate your decision and gently ask your companion not to bother you anymore - not to look for meetings, not to try to contact via telephone, Internet, etc. Explain that it has become difficult for you in such a relationship, because not only you are suffering, but also the other woman - your spouse. Write that you no longer want to lie and force anyone to do it.

You can state directly that you want a serious relationship, a guy you don’t have to share with anyone, and a full-fledged family with a child. Hint that this decision is not negotiable, since it is quite deliberate.

But when opening up, don’t overdo it with your feelings. Otherwise, your partner will take your farewell as a game, or worse, he won’t take you seriously. You should also not set the task of writing about feelings in your own words to make him cry. Leave it to the TV series heroines.

Be careful that your lover, after reading the message, does not become inflamed with new feelings for you.

Also remember that “crying over a broken vase” is pointless, so do not express the details of your experiences, do not try to analyze and “suck” the situation.

In conclusion, wish him happiness in his family life. But do it in such a way that the text does not look like mockery or a joke. If it doesn’t work out, say goodbye without such wishes. The main thing in this matter is openness and honesty. And also - an ironclad determination to end the torment. Be patient. The suffering will pass, and a new stage in your life will begin. Good luck!

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