Based on these important events and dates, a person’s life is built, his lifestyle is determined, and certain conclusions are drawn.
These include: the birth of a child, baptism, graduation from school, receiving a first wages, promotion, wedding, buying a car, buying living space, getting a passport, pregnancy, retirement, military service, etc.
Each of the events in a person’s life is a certain stage that requires a lot of strength, energy, desire and improvement.
As a person goes through each stage of life, he gains something, becomes wiser, more mature and acquires a certain status and significance.
All important events are stored in the memory of both the person himself and those close to him and those around him. They often happen only once in a person’s life, so they are remembered and appreciated.
Absolutely every person has important events in life. Plans his life, and strives to have as many such events in his history as possible.
Each of us enjoys going through certain stages of life and, thanks to these stages, being able to move on, looking forward with confidence.
The most unusual, most pleasant and most solemn event that can happen is, of course, the birth of a new life and the birth of a person. It completely changes the lives of parents, and becomes the most important and significant date not only for parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, brothers and sisters, but also for the person born.
Now a person needs to grow, develop and move forward, shaping his life, so to speak, chapter by chapter. Movement through life forms new important life stages, which years later will form into a person’s biography. And the life of the person himself will be assessed by these important dates and events.
Life is so fleeting that after birth further events They attack very quickly and fly by just as quickly, giving way to new ones.
Some people consider joining a job and moving around to be the most significant event. career ladder. For some, the wedding is considered the most important. Some people consider the most important thing to be the purchase of real estate. All people are different, everyone strives for something specific, everyone sets priorities for themselves. But no matter how they are arranged, and no matter what event is considered the most important and significant special events, there is still no way to avoid it. And each person will accumulate a certain list.
It so happens that not everything that happens in life can be attributed to good events and holidays. There are also bad ones that make you look at life from a new angle, change something in it, rethink something. Such events also remain in our memory for a long time, and perhaps change our lives completely. It is better not to concentrate all your attention on them. We must try to survive what happened and move forward with bright and healthy thoughts. Forming a bright streak of life.
Such an important event as a wedding forces a person to move forward, forming a unit of society. And a wedding entails a series of certain other important events. These are such as the birth of a child, buying real estate, career-related events, making new friends, new anniversaries, new dates, new holidays.
Important events in life there are so many of them. Try to protect yourself from the bad ones. Look forward with confidence, realize your wildest plans and dreams. And you will have something to remember, something to tell your friends and family, something to be proud of and something to admire.
It's never too early
Anna Boldyreva(24):
“I gave birth to a daughter at 18 years old. Being a young mother is difficult: you have just entered adulthood, and immediately there is such responsibility. But the child helped set priorities. For a long time I could not decide on a specialty: I was torn between computer science, medical examination, and Chinese. Due to pregnancy, I had to take a break from my studies, and while I was staying at home with my child, I was able to understand what I was really interested in. With the advent of my daughter, I became much more feminine. As a mother of a girl, I feel enormous responsibility for my behavior and appearance. Family is great, loved ones give me a feeling of stability, confidence in tomorrow. And, of course, they make me happy."
It's never too late
Nadezhda Aksenova(39):
“I believe motherhood is the main purpose of a woman. Therefore, it is good to become a mother at any time. I gave birth at 38 years old. I wanted a child for a long time, but somehow it didn’t work out, hope gave way to despair, and vice versa. And then a daughter was born. Now it seems that my whole world revolves only around her.
Giving birth is not physically difficult. Maybe my birth went well because I prepared for it: I went to special courses and studied. Of course, pregnancy is not a project, but it does require knowledge and preparation. I'm glad I gave birth at this age. A more mature attitude helps you understand your child better, give him more attention and enjoy the time spent together.”
Find your favorite thing
It's never too early
Anna Stupenkova(23):
“I’ve been involved in journalism for almost half my life and couldn’t even imagine that I would switch to something else. But shortly before receiving my diploma, I heard from friends about the Yandex management school. At that moment, I was just managing the site and thought that it would be nice to understand Internet technologies. After training, I successfully defended my project and was offered a job. I was wildly confused. On the one hand - your favorite profession, experience, good position. On the other hand, it’s like I’m 15 years old again, and I know absolutely nothing, I’m starting from scratch. I was intimidated by the prospect of communicating with the team: incredibly smart and technically savvy people. Mostly by men older than me. And yet I decided to take a risk, because there would be no second chance.
I know that many graduates, having received their diploma and realizing that they are interested in something completely different, do not dare to throw 5 years of their lives down the drain. I’m sure: education is education, but changing professions will become more and more difficult with age. Now I am enthusiastically mastering statistics and programming, learning to understand complex terminology, and my colleagues are helping me. This company has a special atmosphere: it doesn’t matter how old you are, what gender or nationality you are. The main thing is to think and have a sense of humor. By the way, all my friends noticed that I had it when I announced my decision to change my specialty.”
It's never too late
Alla Shakhova(44):
“I was a regional representative for the sale of cosmetics, a makeup artist. But one day I got bored of painting brides.
It wasn't easy. People living in the regions, like me, value stability and do not like to take risks. But the theater inspired me so much that I wasn’t afraid of anything. And the last thing I cared about was my age.”
Meet love
It's never too early
Larisa Surkova(36):
“My husband and I met on September 1 at the university. I was 17 years old, and he was 9 older. The difference was noticeable: I was more like a teenager, and he was already a grown man. But it was love at first sight, and the following summer we got married. A year later we had a baby eldest daughter. My husband transferred to the correspondence department; he had to feed his family. Over the past 17 years, we've both earned our degrees, built solid careers, and had three more children.
My parents were skeptical about our marriage at first. Especially my mother - it seemed to her that I could find a better prince. And I was a maximalist, to whom give love immediately and for the rest of my life. It seems to me that the secret of our happiness is that my husband is older than me. He is wiser, calmer, and always supports in difficult periods. And this is very important, for example, for a pregnant woman whose mood depends on hormones.
In general, it seems to me that everything depends not on age, but on two people. From how important it is for them to be together and love each other.”
It's never too late
Ekaterina Goncharova(40):
“I got married for the first time immediately after graduating from college. You can say “it didn’t work out”, but, to tell the truth, it was a nightmare. After the divorce, I even moved to another city. I categorically did not want to repeat such an experience, so I got carried away with my work. Of course, I wanted a family, children, but somehow I didn’t believe that this was possible.
Everything would have continued like this if one day I had not seen an interesting comment on a social network under a photo of my classmate. The man left him. I went to his page, we met and started corresponding. About six months later we decided to meet on neutral territory, in St. Petersburg. The long-distance relationship lasted for about another year: we met periodically in one city or another. Until my beloved proposed. I was 38, I didn’t want to get married, but I was also afraid of losing him. He is so wise, calm, reliable. Never rushed me. I doubted for a long time and asked the Universe to give me some kind of sign. When I saw two lines on the pregnancy test, I realized that this was it. It's funny, but later my husband told me that he was also looking for signs. And I found it! We lived in different cities in apartments with the same number - 26. My last name is Goncharova, and he lived in Moscow on a street with the same name. We got married and soon had a son. And now I’m sure that at 40 the most interesting things are just beginning.”
With every important event in a person’s life, experience and wisdom come to him, allowing him to go through new challenges with his head held high and appreciate what he already has and what will be.
Any event, both good and bad, is connected with the people around a person - relatives, loved ones, friends. In communicating with them, a person gains strength for new achievements, learns to love and accept people with their good and bad sides, as well as make difficult and important decisions.
It all starts with a family in which a little person grows up and at different periods of his life he learns the most important truths:
- The most powerful force is faith. Gradually, with age, a person understands that the greatest and most powerful force is faith. The faith of parents in their child is limitless. How often can you notice that a child’s success largely depends on how much his parents believe in him and how much they support him in his desire to achieve success in what is important and necessary for the child. In addition, in the family, in addition to faith in one’s own strength, the child learns to overcome his fears, doubts and insecurities.
- The biggest obstacle is fear. At the same time, the child may not yet be fully aware, but understand that the greatest obstacle in life is his own fear, which binds a person and does not allow him to move forward. Any path has obstacles and it is important in this confrontation to never lose heart, because it is not in vain that trials are sent to a person. In them he finds new friends, learns to appreciate the people and things nearby, discovers something new about himself and himself that will allow him to avoid any difficulties in the future.
The biggest mistake is to lose heart. It is important to support a person at this time, to instill in him hope that all this is temporary and he can overcome all difficulties.
- By instilling hope, a person has a chance and a great desire to make his dreams come true. Dreams that will help him strengthen in this life and support their descendants.
- The most insidious feeling is envy. As a person ages, he makes more and more new acquaintances, some become friends, some become enemies. If a person does something better than another, then the most insidious feeling may appear - envy of other people's successes and other lives. However, one should never envy, because no one knows for sure what a person paid for this success - children, health, free time, which he could spend with his elderly parents.
- Because you never know what to expect from him in the next minute. Often everyone is surrounded by a person who constantly lies and is a hypocrite.
- The best defense is a smile. You can only fight offenders with a smile, as this is the best defense. Smiling - you leave no chance for ill-wishers. Therefore, find the strength within yourself not to follow the lead of the offender who wants to ruin your mood.
- The most beautiful act is to forgive. This is the ability to give up your grievances to someone who hurt you. The ability to forgive is a skill that will help you overcome your anger and find the path of reconciliation with a sincere heart.
Most best gift- Love. The love of parents, the love of a husband or wife, the love of children and grandchildren inspires a person, makes him, on the one hand, strong and happy, and on the other, more calm, gentle and caring.
The life of every person consists of a series of changing events, but sometimes events in a person’s life repeat themselves too noticeably. Usually, a person’s success is followed by failures, or simply a temporary lull. Everything in the world is balanced: nothing lasts forever.
People tend to believe in fate, fate, coincidence. Some rely only on themselves, while others expect help from any passerby, but there is one fact that undoubtedly baffles even the most sane person. This is the cyclical nature of unfinished periods repeating in his life. By the way, you can also watch a video about this on our video channel.
About the cyclical repetition of events in human life A lot of articles have already been written, but I would like to touch on a slightly different side of its manifestation. Most often, people don’t even notice that similar events happen to them day after day, such is the current rhythm of life.
Not everyone would think of stopping while running and analyzing at least a day of their life, but some manage to do so. And they open very Interesting Facts and patterns.
Maybe you have noticed that events have happened in your life or people have appeared who repeat the previous ones in amazing little details. This is very unusual, but if you think about it, this has happened to every person at least once.
Have you ever wondered why this happens? Why does the situation repeat itself? Why do new relationships repeat the previous ones like two peas in a pod? Why does a new career follow the same pattern?
Why do life situations repeat themselves?
Well, there is an answer to this question, and it is much simpler than you imagine. To start a cycle of repeating life events, spontaneity and giving the event significance are needed.
A cycle is essentially a block that consists of our already lived thoughts. And we put this block at a moment of our greatest vulnerability, when we cannot control the course of our thoughts.If you find yourself thinking that this has already happened to you, then remember how it all ended. The repetition of the situation is given to us intentionally. This means we made a mistake in our past experience, or ended up in a way we shouldn’t have.
And this cycle will repeat itself, like a broken record, until we find correct solution puzzles. Nobody says it's easy. First of all, you need to understand yourself and listen to your inner world. The real you already knows the answers to all the questions, the main thing is to just listen to your Self.
How to get out of the circle of repeating situations in life?
And in order to get out of the circle of repeating situations in life, you will have to wean yourself from the habit of lying to yourself. As long as you play the game with yourself, absolutely nothing will be resolved, and the cycles will repeat endlessly.
What does it mean to not lie to yourself?- you ask.
This is very given time, a hackneyed phrase, but very necessary work above oneself. Take off the mask and be the way you, not society, want it, be in harmony with yourself, take responsibility for everything that happens around you. After all, every day begins with yourself. And you are not in the mood because the reason is inside, and not in the world around you.Think about how you can change your day today, making it more beautiful, not only for yourself, but also for other people.
Another factor for repeating cycles is your memories.
We all constantly hear that thoughts are material, that the past must be left in the past, and live, enjoying every second.
But this does not always work out. Every now and then various thoughts and memories from past experiences come into my head. It’s one thing to climb, but we are also starting to analyze it and consider other outcomes of the development of the situation.
What does repeating the past lead to?
Memories provoke repetition of situations from the past, since your tactile sensations and smell are added to simple memories. An exact projection of the time you remember is launched. And you force yourself to relive everything again. And, lo and behold! You will definitely get over it soon!
But in fact, the situation no longer exists, it is in the past. Why analyze it, clogging the brain with unnecessary information?
To get rid of the habit of living in the past, meditation will help. And it doesn’t have to be sitting in the lotus position. You can simply put on your favorite music, sit comfortably and close your eyes. Just, without thinking about anything, spend half an hour with benefit for yourself.
Repeating the fate of the parents
Also, repetition of the fate of parents is very common.
Here the pattern is the same as above, and only you yourself can complete this. Analyze what is happening, draw an analogy, and you will find a way out of this situation, because everything is much simpler than you think.
You shouldn’t rely on fate, feeling sorry for yourself, and you shouldn’t run around among magicians and healers in search of curses and evil eyes, throwing away fabulous sums. You can solve all such questions yourself by simply listening to yourself.
The main thing is to remember that all trials and troubles are for your benefit and not to get upset. After all, God gives each person those tests that he can withstand, that is, the tests of one person will not be identical to the tests of another person. And just as Life itself arranges tests at every stage, so wisdom comes with time, therefore the truth is revealed only to those who really try to comprehend it, but everything has its time.