Ready Arguments for composing the Unified State Examination:
Motherhood problem
The Problem of Blind Motherly Love
Motherhood as a feat
Possible theses:
Mother's love is the strongest feeling in the world
Being a good mother is a real feat
A mother is ready to do anything for her children
Sometimes mother's love blinds, and a woman sees only good things in her child
D. I. Fonvizin comedy “The Minor”
A striking example of blind maternal love is Fonvizin’s comedy “The Minor.” Prostakova loved her son so much that she saw only good things in him. Mitrofan was allowed to get away with everything, any of his whims were fulfilled, his mother always followed his lead. The result is obvious - the hero grew up as a spoiled and selfish young man who loves no one but himself, and is not indifferent even to his own mother.
L. Ulitskaya story “Daughter of Bukhara”
A real maternal feat is described in Ulitskaya’s story “The Daughter of Bukhara.” Alya, main character works, was very beautiful girl. Having become Dmitry’s wife, the oriental beauty gave birth to a girl, but it soon became clear that the child had Down syndrome. The father could not accept the handicapped child and left for another woman. But Bukhara, who loved her daughter with all her heart, did not give up and devoted her life to raising the girl, doing everything possible for her happiness, sacrificing her own.
A. N. Ostrovsky play “The Thunderstorm”
Mother's love is not always expressed in affection. In Ostrovsky’s play “The Thunderstorm,” Kabanikha, the mother-in-law of the main character, loved to “educate” her children, giving them punishments and reading morals. It is not surprising that son Tikhon showed himself as a weak-willed, dependent person and a mumbler who could not take a single step without his “mama.” Kabanikha’s constant interference in her son’s life had a negative impact on his life.
F. M. Dostoevsky novel “Crime and Punishment”
In Dostoevsky's novel Crime and Punishment, endless maternal love can also be traced. Pulcheria Alexandrovna was most worried about the happiness of her son Rodion and believed him no matter what. For his sake, the woman was ready to sacrifice her daughter. It seems that the son was much more important to Pulcheria than Dunya.
A. N. Tolstoy’s story “Russian Character”
Tolstoy's story "Russian Character" emphasizes the power of maternal love. When tanker Yegor Dremov received burns that disfigured his face beyond recognition, he was afraid that his family would turn their backs on him. The hero visited his relatives under the guise of his friend. But sometimes a mother’s heart sees clearer than her eyes. The woman, despite her alien appearance, recognized the guest as her own son.
V. Zakrutkin’s story “Mother of Man”
Zakrutkin’s story “Mother of Man” tells how big the heart of a real mother can be. During the war, the main character, having lost her husband and son, was left alone with her unborn child on land plundered by the Nazis. For his sake, Maria continued to live, and soon she took in the little girl Sanya and loved her like her own. After some time, the baby died of illness, the heroine almost went crazy, but stubbornly continued her work - to revive what was destroyed, for those who, perhaps, will return. During this time, the pregnant woman managed to shelter seven more orphans on her farm. This act can be considered a real maternal feat.
- Misunderstanding between generations arises due to differences in worldviews
- Parents' advice means a lot to children
- A person’s attitude towards his parents can be used to judge his moral qualities.
- Not taking care of your parents means betraying them
- Parents are not always good to their children.
- Many are ready to sacrifice the most precious things in order for their children to be happy
- Correct relationships between children and parents are built on love, care, support
- Sometimes the truly close person becomes not the one who gave birth, but the one who raised
Arguments
I.S. Turgenev “Fathers and Sons”. IN this work we see the real one. The generation of “fathers” includes Pavel Petrovich and Nikolai Petrovich Kirsanov. The generation of “children” is Evgeny Bazarov and Arkady Kirsanov. Young people share the same views: they say they are nihilists - people who reject generally accepted values. The older generation doesn't understand them. The conflict leads to fierce disputes and a duel between Evgeniy Bazarov and Pavel Petrovich Kirsanov. Gradually, Arkady Kirsanov realizes that his values do not coincide with Bazarov’s teachings, and returns to his family.
N.V. Gogol “Taras Bulba”. Father not only wants to give Ostap and Andriy a decent education, but also to make them real warriors defending their Motherland. Taras Bulba cannot forgive Andria for his betrayal (he goes over to the side of the enemy because of his love for a Polish woman). Despite seemingly fatherly love, he kills his son. Taras Bulba is proud of Ostap, the eldest son, who fights the enemy selflessly, with all his might.
A.S. Griboyedov “Woe from Wit”. The source of happiness for Famusov is money. He loves his daughter Sophia, wishes her all the best, so he accustoms the girl only to thoughts of financial well-being. Such views are alien to Sofya Famusova; she diligently hides her feelings from her father, because she knows that she will not be supported. Things are completely different with Molchalin, whom his father taught to always and everywhere seek profit: he follows this principle in everything. Parents, wanting to ensure the happiness of their children, passed on their views on life to them. The only problem is that these very views are incorrect.
A.S. Pushkin “ Captain's daughter”. Father, sending Pyotr Grinev to serve, said a very important and correct thing: “Take care of your shirt again, and take care of your honor from a young age.” Father's words became young man the most important moral guideline. In the most difficult conditions, threatening death, Pyotr Grinev retained his honor. It was truly important for him not to betray his father and homeland. This example is a clear confirmation that parental instructions help the child learn the most important moral values.
A.S. Pushkin “Station Warden”. Dunya committed an immoral act: she ran away from her parents’ house with Minsky, who was staying at their station. Her father, Samson Vyrin, could not live without his daughter: he decided to go on foot to St. Petersburg to find Dunya. One day he was lucky enough to see a girl, but Minsky drove the old man away. After a while, the narrator learned that the caretaker had died, and Dunya, who betrayed him, came to the grave with three barchats and lay there for a long time.
K.G. Paustovsky “Telegram”. Katerina Petrovna loved her daughter Nastya very much, who lived a very bright, eventful life in Leningrad. Only the girl completely forgot about her old mother, she didn’t even try to find time to visit her. Even Katerina Petrova’s letter that she has become completely unwell is not taken seriously by Nastya and does not consider the possibility of immediately going to her. Only the news that her mother is dying evokes feelings in the girl: Nastya understands that no one loved her as much as Katerina Petrovna. The girl goes to her mother, but no longer finds her alive, so she feels guilty before the person most dear to her.
F.M. Dostoevsky “Crime and Punishment”. Rodion Raskolnikov sincerely loves his mother and sister. Speaking about the motives for the murder of the old pawnbroker, he says that he actually wanted to help his mother. The hero tried to get out of eternal poverty and troubles. As he pawns the watch, he remembers with trepidation his father, who owned the thing.
L.N. Tolstoy “War and Peace”. In the work we see several families whose lives are based on completely different moral principles. Prince Vasily Kuragin is an immoral man, ready to do any meanness for the sake of money. His children are guided by exactly the same principles: Helene marries Pierre Bezukhov in order to receive part of a huge inheritance, Anatole tries to run away with Natasha Rostova. A completely different atmosphere reigns among the Rostovs: they enjoy nature, hunting, and holidays. Both parents and children are kind, sympathetic people, incapable of meanness. Prince Nikolai Bolkonsky raises his children in strictness, but this severity is for their benefit. Andrei and Marya Bolkonsky are moral people, true patriots, like their father. We see that there is a close relationship between parents and children. The worldview of children depends on the worldview of parents.
A.N. Ostrovsky “Thunderstorm”. In Kabanikha's family, relationships are built on fear, cruelty, and hypocrisy. Her daughter Varvara has learned to lie perfectly, which she wants to teach Katerina too. Son Tikhon is forced to obey his mother unquestioningly in everything. All this leads to terrible consequences: Katerina decides to commit suicide, Varvara runs away from home, and Tikhon decides to “revolt” against Kabanikha.
A. Aleksin “Division of property.” Verochka was raised by her grandmother Anisya: she literally put the child, who had suffered a severe birth injury, back on his feet. The girl calls her grandmother her mother, which displeases her real mother. The conflict gradually escalates and ends in court, where the property is divided. What strikes Verochka most is that her parents turned out to be such callous, ungrateful people. The girl is having a hard time with the situation; she writes a note to her parents, defining herself as property that should go to her grandmother.
In everyone's life there is a person who will always understand and give good advice, will help if you have trouble, will do everything to make you feel good. This person's name is Mom. And the place of a mother in a person’s life is special, exclusive, because the mother carries within herself the actual idea of Man. Mother is the link between generations. The word “ma-ma” itself is formed by babies at the very first stage of their speech development, at the babbling stage. A mother pours her tenderness and love into her child, singing him lullabies, spending sleepless nights at his cradle. Mother's love... How light and bright is the feeling that helps little man get on your feet and develop as a person!
Fiction cannot fail to respond to such a pressing problem. Here we go modern writer Larisa Grigorievna Sailor in the story “Mama” reflects on the problem of sacrificial maternal love. The author talks about Anna Viktorovna, a teacher who dreamed of a son for a long time. “And he was born! - exclaims the writer. “Strong, healthy and beautiful!” The heroine’s dream came true, and she perceived her son “as a miracle who appeared to become her support always and in everything.” Next comes a story about the difficulties that the heroine faced: this includes concern for preserving complete family, and the concessions and compromises that she made in order to create an atmosphere of peace in the house. Anna Viktorovna’s best thoughts and feelings belonged to her son, the author writes. Such deep maternal love could not but bear fruit, as Victor grew up bright, diligent and talented. The son and mother were very attached to each other: they discussed a lot together, shared their impressions with each other. L.G. The sailor comes to the conclusion: his mother’s love allowed Victor to feel protected and confident, he had self-esteem and was friendly to others.
Indeed, a mother’s love, friendship and mutual understanding with her allow a child to develop as an individual and easily adapt to society.
Another writer who did not remain indifferent to the problem of maternal love was Anatoly Georgievich Aleksin. In the story “Forgive me, Mom,” we read the author’s sad mental dialogue with his mother, whom he tried to save from illness, from everyday hardships, “in a hurry to fulfill her infrequent requests.” The writer painfully regrets that he did not have time to tell his mother during her lifetime “all the good that can be said and done... all the good that can be done.” The writer’s words touch to the core about how inattentive we sometimes are to our mothers, but they strive to understand everything based on the interests of their child. "Take care of mothers!" - Anatoly Aleksin calls on us, readers.
A mother cannot help but love her child - her flesh and blood. And we, children, take this love and care for us for granted, as a completely natural feeling. But it often happens that a child grows up and continues to bask in his mother’s love, without realizing that the time has come for him to take care of his mother. Do our mothers really need a lot? They expect warm words, phone calls, participation and understanding from us. But in the bustle of days, immersed in our own affairs and worries, sometimes we forget about this little thing. Mom, of course, will understand and forgive, she will only say sympathetically: “I understand how tired you are...”
What should we, their children, do for our mothers? On time, while your mother is alive, you need to take care of her, without hesitation, speak words of love to her, and do not put off until tomorrow the good things that you can do for her today!
Essay plan 15.3 on the topic"Mother's Love"*
- A holy and strong feeling is maternal love (definition);
- Mom's kindness and tact;
- Manifestation of maternal love;
- Mother's love is different for everyone.
Essay example 15.3
Mother's love is the most selfless, strong, bright feeling in the world. After all, there is so much connected with the mother’s name. She is always near us, she will always find the right words for support. Mom takes care of us. Throughout our lives we feel her tenderness, strength, and support. Mom, like an angel descended from heaven, protects us and helps us overcome difficulties.
There is nothing more important in life than mom. Her affection seems to be enough not only for her own children, but for all the children in the world. She, like a huge bird, is ready to protect her cubs from the danger that threatens them.
In sentences 13-16 of the proposed text, we observe how carefully the mother escorts her son to school, how tactful she is in showing her care. The boy, who considers himself old enough, does not want to be seen off. And mom obediently puts the things she took back in their place. But concern for her son drives her after him, and she, hiding so that the boy would not be offended, goes, accompanying him to school... And a little later, in sentences 34-41, when the hero of the work sees his mother standing in the rain at the school windows , his soul becomes warmer because his mother is nearby. These short lines reveal an all-consuming, bright and strong feeling - maternal love.
I remember my mother as an eternal busybody. She worked so hard, but her love and patience were always enough for me. She solved problems with me and taught me poetry. And if something didn’t go well at school, she always gave advice. Mom witnessed my first love and helped me get over my unrequited feeling. She was there when I was unwell. And she never said that she was in pain or that she was tired. Mom wisely guides me through life, and always tries to find an excuse for my not always correct actions. For her, I am still that baby who needs to be taken care of and looked after, the best and beloved child in the world.
Speaking about maternal love, I cannot help but recall Kedrin’s poem, which is called “Heart”. The hero of the work cut open his mother's chest to give the girl her heart. When he fell, the mother's heart sank. The son, who killed his mother for the sake of love for a girl, asked with a fallen heart: “Are you hurt, son?” These words once again confirm the correctness of our statement that a mother’s love is able to withstand any test for the sake of her child.
To summarize, we can say that mother's love cannot be defined by any one term. This feeling defies definition. For each of us, maternal love is different and everyone understands it in their own way.
Teacher's comment:
Where to start preparing for an argumentative essay?
- When starting work, remember that you must show your ability to reason and think on a given topic; it is important to be able to convince that you are right.
- An argumentative essay usually consists of 3-4 parts: definition of the topic, its formulation; justification of the topic (its disclosure) and the final conclusion.
- You definitely need to make a plan for your essay, it will be easier to write.
- Parts of the essay should be divided into logical passages, there should be no confusion (that is, if you are talking about one thing, do not insert unnecessary things into your reasoning, do not jump from one thought to another).
- Use a dictionary of synonyms.
- Try to use quotations to support your conclusions or number sentences.
*Source text for analysis:
(1) Tolya didn’t like autumn. (2) He didn’t like it because the leaves were falling and “the sun shone less often,” and most of all because it often rained in the fall and his mother didn’t let him go outside.
(3) But then the morning came when all the windows were in winding water paths, and the rain was hammering and hammering something into the roof... (4) But mother did not keep Tolya at home, and even hurried her. (5) And Tolya felt that now he was very big: dad also went to work in any weather!
(6) Mom took out an umbrella and a white raincoat from the closet, which Tolya secretly put on instead of a robe when he and the guys played doctors.
- (7) Where are you going? – Tolya was surprised.
- (8) I’ll accompany you.
- (9) Should I... see you off? (10) What are you?
(11) Mom sighed and put the prepared things back in the closet.
(12) Tolya really liked running to school in the rain. (13) Once he turned around and suddenly saw his mother on the other side of the street. (14) There were a lot of raincoats and umbrellas on the street, but he recognized his mother immediately. (15) And she, noticing that Tolya turned around, hid around the corner of an old two-story house.
(16) “Hiding!” – Tolya thought angrily. (17) And he ran even faster, so that his mother would not try to catch up with him.
(18) Near the school itself, he turned around again, but his mother was no longer there.
(19) “I’m back,” he thought with relief.
(20)On ceremonial lineup The students lined up in classes. (21) The young teacher quickly brushed wet strands of hair from her face and shouted:
– (22) First “B”! (23) First “B”!
(24) Tolya knew that the first “B” was him. (25) The teacher took the children to the fourth floor.
(26) While still at home, Tolya decided that he would never sit at a desk with a girl. (27) But the teacher, as if jokingly, asked him:
- (28) You probably want to sit down with Chernova, right?
(29) And it seemed to Tolya that he really had always dreamed of sitting next to Chernova.
(30) The teacher opened the magazine and began roll call. (31) After roll call she said:
- (32) Orlov, please close the window.
(33) Tolya immediately jumped up and went to the window, but it was not easy for him to reach the handle. (34) He stood up and suddenly froze on tiptoe: outside the window he suddenly saw his mother. (35) She stood holding a folded umbrella in her hands, not paying attention to the rain that was dripping from her raincoat, and slowly ran her eyes along the school windows: mom probably wanted to guess in which class her Tolya was sitting.
(36) And then he could not get angry. (37) On the contrary, he wanted to lean out into the street, wave to his mother and shout loudly, so as not to be drowned out by the rain:
– (38) Don’t worry! (39) Don’t worry, mommy... (40) Everything is fine! (41) But he couldn’t shout, because shouting is not supposed to happen in class.
(According to A. Aleksin)*
* Aleksin Anatoly Georgievich (born in 1924) – writer, playwright. His works such as “My Brother Plays the Clarinet”, “ Characters and performers”, “Third in the fifth row”, etc., tell mainly about the world of youth.(from Open Bank FIPI)
The material was prepared by Larisa Gennadievna Dovgomelya
Love is a broad concept. This feeling can be felt for the Motherland, parents, friends, opposite sex. But parental love– the strongest, selfless, gentle, reverent, huge, endless. Happy are those people who managed to experience this feeling.
No one in this world worries more about children than mom and dad. No matter how old a person is, two years old or forty years old, for his mother he always remains a child. Only parents will sincerely worry, believe, hope, and pray for the well-being of their child. Even during illnesses, the mother will ask God to transfer all the pain and hardships onto her shoulders, if only her baby would feel better. During the Second World War, parents gave the last piece of bread to their child, but they themselves remained hungry.
The mother strives to create all conditions for the comfort of her baby. It’s not for nothing that people say that a person feels best in his parents’ home, the place where he grew up, matured, went to school, and most importantly, where his mom and dad live. Regardless of age, a person always needs parents. By losing them, we lose a part of our heart.
A child needs a full-fledged family: mom and dad, only in this case will he be truly happy. No one can replace his parents, neither grandmother, nor grandfather, nor aunt, nor uncle.
Many children are ashamed of their parents: their appearance, social status, professions. But this is not true! They gave everything they had to make their child happy. No matter how much we do for our loved ones, we will still owe them. They gave us the most important thing - life. You should always remember this.
How many tears, sleepless nights, and worries the mother experienced while the child grew up. And when he becomes an adult, he has the audacity to be rude, use obscene words and even beat his blood. Some, in order to avoid having to look after their old parents, send them to a nursing home. You are simply horrified when you hear such stories.
How many works, songs, legends have been written all over the world by different writers, composers, poets in honor of mothers. Our domestic creators, Sukhomlinsky, Pushkin, Gorky, repeatedly explored the theme of motherhood in their works. Artists of all times have depicted their mothers on canvas. This should become a model for contemporaries.
You need to appreciate, respect and take care of your parents. Helping them in difficult times and not forgetting how we treat them is how our children will treat us in the future.
Essay What is parental love?
What does parental love mean? This means caring for their children, helping in any life situations. And, for them, it doesn’t matter whether the child is still small or already old enough. For parents, he always remains just their child.
Their love is limitless and capable of performing feats for the sake of their children. How many examples of this can be found in life. And many of the proofs of this are captured and sung in literary works. No matter how difficult the time may be, the love of parents always remains the most sincere manifestation of this feeling. Anyone else can betray and forget close person, but not the father, and not the mother. Their love is resistant to trials and time. She is unshakable.
However, parental love does not mean that they should cherish and deify their child. Only a truly loving parent will think about his future independent life. And this means that he must do everything so that his beloved child can skillfully and know everything that will be useful to him. A loving parent will raise him strong and resistant to various troubles of life. And to do this, sometimes you have to be quite strict. Neither punishment nor moralizing can be avoided. All this with only one goal - to educate a person capable of living independently and coping with difficulties. And then teach this to your children. And all this is evidence of parental love.
And very often it turns out that children do not understand this. It is important to always remember that no matter how strict a parent is, it is only for the benefit. He conveys his life experience and knowledge. This means he loves his child.
Parents give us life. This is the only thing you need to be grateful for. Parents give their care and carefully monitor their child’s first steps. And they always do this: both when we are just learning to walk, and when certain moments in life come. Even if they don’t always do it too clearly, especially when the child becomes an adult. But only they love us as we are and only for what we are.
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