When a girl is 5 years old, you tell her a story and send her to bed.
At the age of 10, she tells herself fairy tales as she goes to bed.
At the age of 15, she tells her mother stories about how she never went to bed with anyone.
At 20, anyone is ready to tell her a fairy tale to get her into bed.
At 25, people tell tales about what she can do in bed.
At 30, she's in bed telling stories that she's still 20.
At 35, you tell her stories that you don't drag anyone into bed anymore.
At 40, she's telling you stories to get you into bed.
At 45 you tell her stories to avoid going to bed.
What to talk about with a girl when dating? How to talk during a pickup - loudly or quietly, with a cheerful face or with a serious one?.. You must use all of the options listed. If you tell a girl a joke, then tell it vividly and loudly. If you’re loading, speak a little more quietly to reduce the contact area, but clearly so that she doesn’t have to ask you again. A soft, inspired voice, a slightly unfocused look, adjustment (posture and breathing), an interested look, mirroring gestures... There are also so-called trance intonations. In general, voice work is the most important part of communication, since with the help of it we usually communicate. It’s best to “give your voice” at NLP training, and at home your trainer will be a voice recorder.
Let's move on to the topics of conversation... You need to talk with a girl about life, about people and attitude towards them, about what is valuable to her, what she likes in men, about love, finally. Stories about parents inspire the greatest confidence in the interlocutor. Here you can use your imagination and tell how your dad jumped with a parachute, and it often did not open, or how your mother heroically saved a litter of kittens from a burning house. Start talking about the girl's interests, her future profession, tell me an incident from your life, a little philosophy, a story about some musician that she might find interesting. You ask a question - almost any one, and while she is thinking, you prepare the next one, think about the further conduct of the conversation. The more questions you have ready, the easier it is to think through and direct the conversation in the right direction. Remember Stirlitz - he spoke and thought completely about different things simultaneously! Of course, this won’t happen right away, but it’s worth training.
Main - When talking to a girl, don’t focus on one topic! After a pause in the conversation, when it begins to seem that everything has already been said on the previous topic, just change the subject. At least pay attention to the weather - but don’t overdo it with platitudes! After talking yourself, leave time for her to express herself so that you don’t get the impression that you adore monologues. She is the same person, only with a slightly different way of thinking - try to feel it, understand its value. And the questions “what to talk about with a girl” simply will not arise, since the main reason for their occurrence is that the guy often does not see the personality behind the girl.
Imagine a situation when you are talking with your friends - can you constantly and continuously talk to them about any nonsense? No difficulty! This means that the whole problem when communicating with girls depends only on your inner state. Try to communicate more with all the women around you, and sooner or later communication with them will be no different from the other. I recommend listening to the radio, because the DJ constantly has to say different nonsense, and he has to say it constantly and never repeat himself, which is very difficult!
Voice your inner monologue! When you sit next to a girl in a bar, bus, office, talking with her about the weather, work or last year’s vacation, thoughts are spinning in your head about what a charming smile your interlocutor has, how her hair sparkles in the sun, how wonderful she smells perfume. Try to let out this conversation you are having with yourself. Voice your thoughts, tell the girl: “I couldn’t help but notice your eyes - they sparkle like diamonds.” Tell the girl from your office: “You know, work sometimes makes you sad, but you are so charming that all I need to do is see you to cheer me up.” Option for the bus: “I’m just thinking that if it weren’t for your smiling face that I see every morning, I probably would have quit my job and stayed at home.”
Think about the television celebrities you've seen on talk shows. They say unexpected, crazy, even outrageous things, intriguing the audience or making them laugh. Think about your friends who are very popular with girls. You've probably noticed that these men are able to talk to a girl without embarrassment on any topic of interest to women, and the fairer sex likes this. These people break the shackles of traditional secular communication; they are relaxed, spontaneous, and even prone to clownery. They are not afraid to show the girl the heart-shaped birthmark on their own thigh, they fearlessly depict wild duck, luring a drake towards her, and when things get boring at the party, they start a discussion about which kissing technique is the best. In other words, these men are entertaining as hell because they aren't afraid to rip off their suit jacket and say or do whatever they want.
Never ask a girl the typical stranger questions: “Where do you study?”, “Where are you from?”, even “What’s your name?” Old acquaintances don’t ask that. Why remind her once again that you are a stranger? It’s better to ask her the following questions: “Where would you go on vacation, what is your dream country?” or “Tell me the story of this ring of yours.” Even better questions are funny stories about yourself. Talk about yourself as if your interlocutor has known you for a long time. Don’t tell the girl: “I have a five-year-old niece, when she came yesterday, she did something...” It’s better to tell it like this: “My niece, do you know what she did yesterday? She took whipped cream from my refrigerator...” Avoid introducing the girl to the facts of your life, talk about events and emotions.
Incorrect: “I work at the HRENASH corporation as a manager for straightening paper clips. They recently promised to give me a car... Can you imagine?..." It’s better to tell the girl: “You know, yesterday was a hard day, and when I was free, I went out onto the roof of our office building, and looked at the city, at the illuminated windows and hurrying cars, and you know what I was thinking about?... About all these people who dream about something...” Less facts, more emotions. Close people communicate not at the level of facts, but at the level of emotions. Naturally, curiosity will make a girl ask questions. Reward her curiosity with new and interesting messages.
- How old is your niece?
- Lenka? 5 years. You know, the most interesting thing is that she only obeys her grandmother, and she was named after her. You won’t believe it, Grandma Lena once danced in ballet... so when Lenka gets naughty, she starts doing this... we’re making fun of her that we’ll give her to striptease...
It is necessary to talk to the girl in an interesting way and in the most boring (suggested) topics. Your answers should awaken her imagination and spark her curiosity. In order not to give the impression of hiding something (for example, not telling her that the car broke down a long time ago and there is no money for a vacation), give her more information than she needs, more than she is able to absorb. Close people share random things when communicating, without dividing information into important and funny.
Well, if you still suffered failure in the form of complete stupor and awkward silence, then there is a way out here too. At such a moment, it’s good to watch her eyes and then say: “You know, it’s always interesting to know what people think about during pauses like this. I think this could be very good. My friend Vanya also recently met a girl on the street, and they were sitting like we are now. By the way, now they are very happy and they feel good together. And when there was such a pause, he took her hand like this (you take her hand) and said: “I was just thinking about how good it could be for you and me. You are so beautiful, gentle and affectionate. Imagine how good it would be if you thought the same thing now and even after a long time you remembered this day (morning, evening) as the happiest in your life, when you so simply trusted your heart, and now we are happy together "
[Maintain long and interesting conversation For many it turns out to be an impossible task. Even understanding the principles of building a successful dialogue, the man remains painfully silent already in the second minute of communication. At the practical pickup trainings of the Dating Academy, in real conditions you will learn not only how to talk to a girl, but also how to maintain an interesting conversation with any person for many hours. Moreover, the instructor will correct and teach you “on the fly,” right in the process of getting to know each other or on a date, unnoticed by the girl.]
If you have to talk to a girl who has been silent from the very beginning of your acquaintance, you can amuse her with a monologue... Knock-knock! Are we silent? Well, you don’t want to, as you want... Shall we get acquainted? Are you busy? Are you ignoring it? Out of order? Don't feel like chatting? Do you want something more? Tired of guys? Am I imposing? Lost consciousness from happiness? Don’t be silent, oh, beautiful stranger, I can’t stand this deadly silence! Do you like poetry? Let me tell you something! I can give you Shakespeare’s sonnets, amorous poems, Onegin’s letter to Tatiana, excerpts from the orders of the President of the Russian Federation, from the Constitution, I can give you instructions for using a Kalashnikov assault rifle or hypnotic phrases, after reading which you will simply fall in love with me... Maybe you like philosophical sayings?.. We can for life to splurge in kind! Or we can have highly intellectual debates about the meaning of life and spiritual values... What do you like best?.. Maybe we can play a game? I offer a one-question test for your knowledge of the Russian language. If you give the correct answer, then I move aside and never pester you again! If you cannot answer correctly, then you will communicate with me. And if you remain silent, I’ll think of something else! Do you agree?.. I will make you an offer that you cannot refuse! I will use all my strength of character, seduction, individuality, uniqueness of me as a person, so that you answer at least something! Well, at least send me away, or what? At least some reaction... Oh! Eat! Got it! Let's play one more game! Think of the three most sophisticated ways to send young man who pesters you. Weak?! Yes, it seems weak... And you refuse to send me, and you also refuse to answer... Hmm, a very unusual case! What should we do with you?.. What should happen to you? Let's be quiet, okay? Please don't distract me anymore! Don’t even try - I still won’t answer! Oh, it’s good to be silent with you! Just a soul in heaven! There are so few people in the world with whom, even if you are silent, you still feel comfortable! I'm even starting to understand the meaning of life! A little more and I’ll understand! And nirvana will overtake me! It's so nice to talk to a girl like you. And all because of you! Thank you! Big and huge! I started talking for some reason... We seemed to be going to be silent... That's it, we need to concentrate... And be silent... Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... My receptors are opening to the Great Cosmos... Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... How does it feel? I am so glad that I met you! You know how to remain silent so beautifully and eloquently... It’s just rare girl! We need to protect this one!.. Everyone, let’s continue to be silent!.. I congratulate you with all my heart! With what, you ask? I will answer: You are the most unapproachable girl I have ever met. You know, I'm already so used to you. Besides, I can tell you anything, but you still won’t answer... Beauty! I know what you’re thinking... You’re thinking, well, I didn’t say a word, but he chatted for half an hour. He’ll probably tell you a whole novel now... And I’m not going to! I didn’t even think about it! I think a simple presentation with elements of an essay will be enough. Knock-knock! There-there-there! Bang-bang-bang! Fuck-tibidoh! She doesn’t hear... What a talkative girl...
Everyone has experienced that awkward feeling when, while in a relationship with a girl, there are no more topics to talk about and there is complete silence. For couples who have just entered into a relationship and are beginning to develop it, this is a blow below the belt. Below you will find out what to talk about with a girl when you run out of topics to talk about?
You have begun to notice that conversations on the phone or in a meeting are becoming shorter and shorter every day. Instead of pleasure and pleasant communication, conversations turn into short battles and arguments. It's time to do something, or such communication promises you failure and a break in the relationship.
Then, what to talk about with a girl when you run out of topics to talk about? Let's figure it out.
Option #1. This method, when used correctly, can help you have endless conversations not only with your friend on VK, but with almost anyone on a dating site.
Examples
The girl says: “I’m looking forward to the new movie “Superman” to go to the cinema. I’ve watched the trailer for it 10 times already. The music is so beautiful and the actors are very cool!”If you want to make this conversation boring and quick, then simply answering: “I think the movie should be good.”
- how cool it would be to go and watch this movie on the big screen in a theater, and if it was also in 3D, it would be more exciting;
- remember when you were last time in the cinema and what they watched there, maybe it happened to you funny stories at that time;
- share with her other interesting movie trailers;
- ask what genres of films she likes most (horror films, comedies, melodramas, thrillers, etc.);
- ask what famous actors they play in the movie she told you about, and also what she knows about them... and so on.
Every new word in your conversation you can use to new topic. Now you know what you need to talk aboutgirl when all the topics are over.
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Option #2. The second method can be used when asking the girl what she did today and how her day was. Listen carefully and ask additional and clarifying questions for each lesson. This will start a long conversation and the girl will be glad that you are interested in her life. Can be used on a walk or in VK if there is nothing else to ask.
Examples
The girl says: "I read today interesting book. I also listened to great music, did some fitness exercises and made a delicious salad.”
Take each of her activities separately and start asking questions: “What book exactly did she read?” or “What did she find so interesting about her?” When you've exhausted the topic of reading, you can safely move on to music, and then to fitness and salad. The greater your curiosity and desire to find out more details, the more interesting and long your conversation will be.
Option #3. The third method is to write down on a piece of paper a few things you want to tell her or talk about before calling her on Skype or the phone.
Trust me, after this you will never worry about what to say next. In some cases, you may even forget about the things you wrote on paper. Because you will have many spontaneous topics that need to be discussed. But having a little cheat sheet like this gives you a lot of relief and helps you focus on the conversation itself (instead of thinking about what to say next) and make it more natural.
Option number 4. Don't forget that relationships are a team game, so both partners must keep the conversation going.
Encourage your partner to communicate; you should not be the only one in the conversation. Moreover, not all women like talkers. There are times when a girl Bad mood or she has other problems, so she is closed to communication. Try to find out what's going on or just end the conversation for a while.
Option #5. The next method is to use fantasy in your conversation. Can be used on a first date (examples).
For example, in We saw a couple walking with their dog. A wonderful topic for conversation! Ask if she has pet, whether you dreamed of having someone or fantasize together about the topic, if you had the opportunity, who exactly would you like to have.
Option number 6. When you are doing your routine daily life, no wonder you have nothing to talk about with your girl. You urgently need to diversify your own life.
This way you will have new stories and topics to discuss. To do this you need to do something new. For example, go to the cinema with a girl and discuss the film, read the news, books every day, go on a trip somewhere, discover some new look sports, meet new people and so on.
Option No. 7. And of course, the simplest and sometimes the most effective way Avoiding silence and finding topics for conversation means taking a little break from each other.
Take a break from the relationship and some new conversational topics will begin to emerge on their own. Each new thing, which you do in those few hours or days when you are not communicating can be a great subject for further conversation together. Well, now you know exactly what you can talk about with a girl when all the topics are over.
The most common topics of conversation with a girl:
- Pets.
- Trips.
- Movie.
- Foodstuffs.
- Passion (Hobby).
- Dreams.
- The craziest thing she's ever done.
- Family.
- Music.
- Her favorite celebrity.
- Childhood memories.
You can talk about these topics even at 14 years old.
Topics you should not talk about with a girl:
- Religion.
- Your car, your home, your boat.
- Policy.
- Ex-Girlfriends.
Topics for communicating with a girl
Dating and Pickup
Topics for communicating with a girl
We are often asked about topics to talk about with a girl when meeting a girl, on a date, and during closer communication. And, as a rule, guys try to get a certain list of topics that will help them talk to a girl easily and freely.
Unfortunately, this desire of guys is initially wrong, since it is quite stupid to limit your communication with a girl to a certain list of topics that, in the guy’s opinion, will be interesting to the girl. In fact, everything is much more interesting and easier, it will be enough to remember just one thing important rule, and you can communicate comfortably with any girl. talking with a girl.
What topics do girls want to talk about?
No matter how strange it may seem, all people want to talk and discuss exclusively themselves and their affairs, and girls are no exception. Therefore, when meeting girls, they don’t want to listen to guys’ stories about themselves, about their exploits and various affairs and things, they want to talk about themselves and see empathy, understanding and interest in the guy’s eyes. And it would be stupid of you not to use this trick.
Therefore, your communication with a girl should be light and relaxed, so that she feels free to choose topics for conversation, and you sincerely support her intention to talk about what she chooses. There is no need to put pressure on her, no need to interrupt and insert remarks that have little to do with her stories.
Also, you should not show the girl that you are preoccupied. We do not argue that communication with a girl should include flirting and sex, otherwise she will perceive you exclusively as a friend. But this should be a response to the girl’s desire to get closer, and not straightforward stubbornness that turns into concern.
Let her talk about herself, about her affairs, about her goals and desires, about what bad friends she has, and also how she has had no luck with normal guys in relationships. Let her talk about her hobbies and preferences, as well as funny incidents that have happened in her life. And your main task becomes: ability to hear it. Because after each topic, she will want to hear your opinion regarding her story, and she will need to say something more intelligible and worthy than “Yes, you’re right,” “Yes, I think so too.”
You will need to support her main talking points and get her to go a little deeper than she already has. This will show your interest and involvement in the conversation, she will definitely like it.
How to maintain topics for communication:
“I danced as a child, but then I really gave it up because of my studies.”
- You can see that you have a good figure. Moreover, I won’t believe that you don’t dance. When was the last time you went to dance and relax?
“I like watching horror films, I like the atmosphere in them”
- I’m lucky, but I’m afraid to watch such films, I’m constantly scared. Which one is the best scary movie did you watch?
“Look, the sky is cloudy, it should rain now.”
- “Rain is good. Were you afraid of rain as a child? Such a fragile girl must have been afraid of something.”
This way you can show the girl your sincere interest in her as a person, and not as an object for sex and entertainment. But, as you may have already noticed, you should not only maintain a conversation with the girl on her topic, but also from time to time give her compliments that move you closer to her. For example:
- “Good story, I want sex with you” - Wrong!
- « You have an amazing figure, I would be glad to see it in the near future" - Right!
Girl's approval. If you do everything right, the girl will start talking about her past and current exploits, and this sometimes leads to stories about quite shocking things. For example, something vulgar or too personal. However, no matter what she says, you should act as if she didn’t say anything offensive or strange. Then, without her, you will draw conclusions from this and think about the whole prospect of the relationship, but while you are with her, support everything she says.
Topics for conversation with a girl
Although your number 1 goal is to get a girl to talk about herself, quite often you come across girls who act shy. They will be afraid to tell you anything at first. Then, to avoid awkward silence, you will need to take matters into your own hands. And with these topics you can start a conversation with a girl:
Hobbies, hobbies, interests. You look at a girl and notice things that can somehow characterize her and her interests. For example, you see a bracelet on her hand and ask her where she bought it. Then you start telling her about the influence of bracelets on a person and transfer it all to the topic of mysticism. Girls love such topics, so she will support her.
If a girl doesn't have some distinctive features, then you ask her a question directly, for example: “And you interesting girl What are your hobbies besides walking with nice guys? And then you spin her theme.
Food. Unfortunately or fortunately, now almost every girl openly admits that she loves to eat. Therefore, discussing her taste preferences and culinary capabilities is a great idea.
Trips. Thanks to publics about success and “ free life“Nowadays only the lazy don’t dream of blaming desert island or somewhere in Europe. So ask the girl:
- Where have you been?
- Where do you want to go?
- Why do you like this place?
- How much does a trip there cost?
- Would you like to go alone or with a guy?
Philosophy and the meaning of life. If our girl falls into the “dreamers” category, then discussing the meaning of life or some kind of injustice is best suited. You ask just a couple of questions about her opinion about the meaning of life, and she will be carried away: she will talk, you will argue with her, she will begin to behave aggressively and want you. An ideal theme for spiritual girls.
Relationship. Relationships are a good topic to discuss. Girls love to talk about their loser girlfriends and their unhappy loves. But try not to stoop to discussing her ex-boyfriends, let her just tell you about the meaning of relationships for her and some funny incidents from her life.
And that's all! Now you know how to get a girl to talk and become an interesting conversationalist.
Topics for conversation with a girl are very diverse and there are a lot of them... everything comes with experience, you can talk about anything, but at the same time not talk about how her friend could otherwise send her to the DOD or put a tick next to your name - nice guy, but this is not included in the plans pick-up artist! They should be natural and spontaneous.
So the main topics for conversation with a girl - a whole list
Movie
Do you often go to the movies?
- What films do you like most?
- What genre? For example, I like ...... (comedies) (then talk about the genre that suits her
like. Find out which films)
- Do you go alone or with friends more often?
-Have you ever gone to a night session? What about non-stop night time? (this is when you pay once, and
watch 3-4 movies all night)
-Have you ever noticed that when you go outside after a session, at first the people around you
you perceive the world differently depending on the film. Have you ever had this happen? (If it was
then ask after which movie and how?)
-Have you ever had a strong feeling after watching a movie? Which?
If you run out of topics to talk to a girl- then this is already something serious, or it’s nerves and you need to understand that girls are the same creatures and even more insidious, or you simply don’t have contact - she just cuts off any of your topics at the root. And in the latter case, this may also be her fault, she is simply insane or inadequate for you, but she may be quite adequate for another guy, in this case it is better to just remain friends or leave in an environmentally friendly way.
Many of the topics here will not be suitable for many girls, so choose according to your taste and just have fun)
ATTENTION: do not use too primitive topics to talk to a girl, some particularly smart guys want to see intellectual abilities young guy. Yes, and some wetheads also read these topics and shoot).
Try all the possibilities:
Cafes, bars, discos
Do you often go to discos? where was the last time and why?
- Do you know why some girls go to cafes with their friends so often?
- Do you like sweets?...For pleasure or to the detriment of your diet? :)
- Have you tried to cook anything yourself from what you tried in the cafe?
- You know, very often girls sit in cafes and get bored. Sometimes it lasts more than one hour. What are they waiting for?
- Have you ever dynamized a guy? Well, just be honest;) (regardless of the answer “What a great guy you are!”
:)") Tell..
There are many questions here, but if you constantly ask them, she will feel like she is being interrogated. Of course, they can also be used to create a kind of frame, but unfortunately this is not the frame of a leader. Questions need to be asked, so you can direct conversation with a girl in the direction you need, but you shouldn’t overplay:
Parks, street, recreation areas
Do you like to walk?
- What is your favorite weather? Why?
- Where do you like to walk most?
-Have you ever walked in the rain?
- Do you often just hang out with your friends?
-Have you ever walked around the city all night?
- How long have you been to the zoo?
- Which place do you remember most? Why?
- Do you like to swim? Do you swim often? Where?
By the way, a girl and a guy can also talk about these topics and they are no less interested in it than men.
Relationship
Do you often fall in love?
-Are you a romantic? And what is most?
- How do you feel about the fact that some people say that relationships can be bought with money?
-Have you ever had a completely overnight date?
- Which one do you think is more intense? Male or female? Why?
- Did you have any competitors? Are they still alive? :)
- What do you like more, giving compliments or receiving them?
- What do you consider worthy of a compliment about yourself? Well, besides the beautiful, intriguing look,
Certainly;)
Someone may notice that there are a lot of serious topics for conversation with women, maybe so, that is, you also need to use intuition. If you choose a serious girl, then she will willingly talk to you not only on these topics, but if your woman is too frivolous, then the man will use tricks and games that are rarely associated with seriousness.
General topics
Are you afraid of thunderstorms? What are you most afraid of?
- Do you have any collection? Well, fish, for example, or someone else? :)
- Do you have pets? What's the name? Are you feeding? :)
-Have you been somewhere at sea? What did you feel, what did you like most?
- What music do you like most? Do you listen often?
- Which one was your best? shining moment in life?
- Can you cook? And what works best?
- Do you know how to play something? (how long ago? what do you like most?) Do you like to listen?
- Do you like to sunbathe? Topless? ;)
- Do you remember your first love? In the kindergarten there or in primary school?
- Do you have a brother or sister? Would you like to? (to be alone)
- Which your favorite time of year? What do you like most about it?
How to learn to talk to girls. The topic is very big, you don’t just need to talk to a girl, you need to talk on the same wavelength, in order to catch the wave we need to read the girl’s gestures, facial expressions and much more.
Accordingly, practice and theory are needed, which is what I actually wrote in this article.
After reading, you will have topics to talk to your girl about.
Interesting topics to talk to a girl
- Sport
- Trips
- Cloth
- Weather
- Dream
- Achievements
- The best birthday
- Personal relationships
- About hobbies
- Books
- About love
- What types of guys do you like?
- Animals
How to talk to a girl correctly
Your communication should not be structured as a monologue, be it sudden acquaintances or a first date. Guys often make the mistake of talking only about her, how good she is, who she works for, what she does, what she loves.
The girl answers sweetly, but when it comes to the number, she is in a stupor and does not understand who you are. What are you doing? Why did you come up? What are you interested in?
She has such porridge in her head, boiled porridge, well, what our mothers cooked in childhood. And her brain simply cannot afford to give the number to a stranger.
Don't be a nerd. Learn to communicate with girls
How to avoid this?
It's very simple, you asked her something, take it and answer this question myself.
That is…
- Listen, are you so dressed up after work now?
- She - “Yes, after work.”
- You - “I’m not mistaken, but I’m on my way from training.”
And here you automatically start a dialogue and a picture of who you are and what you are with is slowly built up in her head. You need to understand that she cannot immediately bombard you with questions, as you do with her...
Below you can watch a video on how to start communicating with girls:
But when you build a good dialogue, then take the number and arrange a meeting, then believe me... after 10-15 minutes she will blow your mind and entertain you with her women's themes, that here you will already come across the topic - how to be a good interlocutor.
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What to talk about with a girl
When meeting
At the first meeting and when getting to know each other, we need to focus on recognizing the person, that is, talk about topics such as: who do you work for, what do you do in free time, hobbies, etc.
This is done in order to find out about the girl, tell her about yourself (in the process of dialogue), and after that there will be an understanding of whether it is worth dating her or not. If yes, then take the number and move on.Intrigue and investigation are encouraged - why? Because girls love mysteries, secrets, intrigue, and I think not only girls, but everyone loves this. All this together contributes to calling the girl.
An example of when you really interested a girl.
Then I became interested in a girl I had recently met on the subway.
On a walk
There is almost no difference here, special conversations from the first meeting and topics are not needed. Unless we already need to add personal topics, such as: first love, most ideal man, the most unusual sex.
On the first date
Dating is very good, if you have a meeting with a girl this evening, it means that everything is working out for you, all that remains is to have dates and at the end of the evening go to you or her and relax.
If you are still worried about what to say and how not to offend a girl, then we have created a social network especially for you. poll among girls. It turned out they think about sex more often than us guys!
Dating is a kind of rope and your task is to pull the rope towards you and win. The fact that she came on a date means that she is interested in communication, and you know it, well, I hope so.
For example, on a date you can offer a girl a game; below I will describe one of the games that will allow you to get to know the girl more.
The game is heads and tails. The point is that, having proposed a question and answer game, we throw a coin and then the one who wins asks questions. You won, took it and asked about your first love, the second time you won, took it and already asked about the first sex, and so off we go. By the way, I discovered this purely by accident when I was on a date.
Why do I say that talking about sex is important, because any girl, absolutely anyone, wants intimacy in one way or another, these are genes and there is no escape from them, but for certain reasons she cannot tell you about it.
In the video below you can see a girl's opinion about dating - as it is:
When you sit and talk about what socks you like to wear, or about the fact that the new Gelendvagen AMG 6.5 has a cooler engine than 5/5, she won’t be interested.
It will be much more interesting to communicate on personal topics, intimate topics, and when this happens between you, she will see in you not just a guy who met, but a man who knows why he met a girl. That is, you know how to talk about intimate topics, act!
In contact
Now in 2016, communication on VKontakte has become frivolous, or so most people, especially girls, think.
Can you tell me why?
You must forget about this... from now on, you will learn to correspond.
Because a lot of guys create fake profiles (fake is when a person passes off other people’s photos as his own). They write some kind of nonsense, in the format - your mother doesn’t need a son-in-law? Or they completely throw off their dignity. Yes, this happens too, I hope you’re not like that. It already sits in girls’ throats, just like when you write according to a template.
- Hello, you're sweet.
Hello, you are beautiful.
Hello, let's meet?
Easily took a girl's VKontakte number
Then your chance for dialogue goes to zero... How can you avoid this? There is an exercise called Gollum.
I can’t fully understand it here, but here’s the gist. You go to a girl’s profile, choose a photo where you like her and write about what you like in this photo.
You can respond to such a page somehow with a joke
Hello, you are so cute here, + the sun complements the whole frame. What kind of car? That is, we take little things and talk specifically about this topic. If in your soul you don’t give a fuck about what kind of car it is, then don’t write like that, write about what touches you.
Girls usually have 100-120 photos and you shouldn’t have any problems with that. Such communication is very cool because neither you nor she knows when and what you will talk about. Try it.
By phone
Communication on the phone is the coolest thing for me. Because I feel a girl. She answers my question with a smile or agrees with suspicion to my proposal.That is, I see soberly what is happening in the communication between us, and if I see, then I can control the outcome. In some places, add a joke in communication, and in other places, on the contrary, be more serious.
Lighten up conversations with jokes
When calling, it is advisable to ask if she is comfortable talking. If yes, then speak social topics, warm up your meeting, intrigue, etc. If she cannot speak, then specify when to call her back. Afterwards, in fact, you call back and communicate with her.
What not to say to a girl
It is better to talk about sex carefully; there are special ways for this, for example, playing with a coin.
How to talk to a shy girl. She is modest because she has never met a normal guy, she wants the man to be the main one in communication and relationships, so be him, behave calmly and confidently.
Start with social topics and gradually, depending on the reaction, move on to personal topics. Questions to get the opposite sex talking can be of any nature. From personal views of the world to discussion new series Harry Potter.
- Ask questions that really interest you, for example:
Do guys often approach you?
Are you always so dressed up?
Etc.
It’s not very pleasant to watch a guy who says that “I don’t know what to talk about with a girl.” Ask yourself a question - why did I meet her? Or why did I ask her out on a date? Did you answer yourself? Now talk to her about it.
Example “I’m on a date with her because when I saw her I really liked her hair and long legs. So what? That's right, let's start talking about hair and legs... and do you have your own hair? Your friends are probably jealous of your legs. Do you wear heels?”
What do girls like to talk about?
It's individual. One likes past conversations, the other loves to talk about ecology. But, in both the first and second cases, we need to get her to talk. How to get her to talk? You get into the car and insert the keys, then start it, that is, you perform certain actions.
With a girl, just start with banal topics, talk and move on to topics that interest you. After 10-15 minutes you won't be able to stop her. Go for it.
How to talk to girls at parties? It's best to speak at parties free themes. You can start a conversation by asking “what kind of music is playing?” How long have you been here? How do you like the club?
How to talk to a girl so that she falls in love? Yes, it’s very simple, talk and behave like Romeo. Seriously though, why do you need this? If you want a relationship and for her to love you, then start loving yourself, and she will love you.
Now let's talk a little about compliments.
Generator of compliments for girls. Take note
It's good to give compliments, but often guys go overboard. For example, a girl doesn't like her legs because they are small. And the guy says she has the coolest legs. Or the longest legs. Well, that’s not it, don’t you agree?
So, ask yourself a question, what do I like most about this girl, if it’s the lips, then compliment the lips, if it’s what she’s wearing, okay, say so.
A small life hack especially for you, my reader. Speak and give individual compliments to the girl.
This topic is very extensive, the blog will be regularly filled with new content and, as I wrote earlier, there will be articles on the topic:
- How to have a good date and end up in an apartment.
- Throat on the net and much more.
Go ahead, you read it, you know what to do.
Good luck to you!